beauty0815 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 So I have been off and on with this guy for about 6 months. The reason being is because I suspected that he had a girlfriend. One day I went on fb and saw this girls pageshe had a pic of them kissing her stat updates were about him and her relationship says in a relationship.when I told him about it he called me crazy and said its his ex she still wants him but in HIS EYES its over. Welp I didnt like that too much and tpld him I wasnt having tht. However somehow we end up talking again either hell txt first or I will. Recently after one of our many breaks he txted out the blue((1month break). Saying we need to talk in person. I wasnt going to go because everytime we talk we startover untill iI see her fb again. Anyway wen I get there odly enough he tells me pl about her but still claims shes an ex tht still wants him, he doesnt love her anymore blah blah. So me believes him causehonestly Ive grown to care about him. So I do tell him tht Im not sharing Im too grown for games , and I hope hes not lying this time. He ends the convo with stop being insecure just trust me , and he cares about me thats why he keeps coming bck. Overall I felt it was a great convo and I do believe maybe its different well wrongwas I. Now myself n even him told myself tht I shud stay off her pg but I didnt fully beieve him anyway. So next day I go on her pg to see tht they r no longer friends on fb. PLUS right but her stats r still the same an updated pic of them kissing and her bragging bout the trips their planning together. So now Im stuck , he did say hehas to kiss up a lil because the apartment is in her name but she lives with her parents. But should I believe that? Also he never calls only texted throughout the whole 5montha but he claims because hes busy? Idk wat to think answers r appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 He ends the convo with stop being insecure just trust me Any man who says this to a woman = Big red flag and is being quite dishonest. Stop believing what he is telling you. Don't let your emotions and heart take over. Listen to your gut and listen to your head! Link to post Share on other sites
Faith93 Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Unfortunately, i have also been in this position . I was lied to for months about how he was 'single', he didnt have facebook, someone hacked it or yadda yadda . Only to then find out by his sister, that they were infact going out . What does your gut instinct tell you ? That's usually right . I knew deep down he wasnt single, i should have listened to that instinct. All i can say is have a good, hard think about this. Do you really want it, or do you deserve better? -Faith. "Faith is being sure of what you hope for" Link to post Share on other sites
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