staringspace Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Hey, okay I'm going to try and keep this short and sweet so I can get more advice. There's a guy from my badminton that I'm pretty interested in, and I'm having a hard time reading the signs since it could honestly go either way, and having an outside input may help.. Signs he is: 1. We text a fair bit 2. He's friendly (overly, maybe? More than any other guy I know) when texting, and in real life. There are some things that have been said (by text and IRL) that could be construed as slightly suggestive. 3. He'll ask me questions about how I am, wish me well for my exams and ask how my day's gone etc. - he seems pretty interested in getting to know me, and not being blunt or anything. 4. We'll have a bit of banter between us when we play badminton together and he'll often ask me to play with him. 5. We both seem to be comfortable looking each other in the eye for a fairly long time? Signs he isn't: 1. He's just broken up with his previous girlfriend (a week ago - yes, rebound territory but I wasn't planning to jump straight in there, giving it some time) 2. I'm usually the one starting the conversations via text 3. He could just be genuinely friendly and may be nothing there. I know that you guys can't really tell me much more than what I know, but even though I'm 19 I'm feeling like I'm back in high school again getting excited over this. Obviously I'm being cautious, but I do seem to have a massive 'crush' on this guy and it's actually the happiest I've felt about guys in a while! Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Savage4 Posted May 21, 2012 Share Posted May 21, 2012 How does he act around other women? Is it in the same friendly manner? I know you are excited but I would definitely take things slow considering he just broke up with his gf a week ago. Let things develop naturally and don't try to pressure him into anything. Link to post Share on other sites
thatoneguy1988 Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 For me If i was interested in a girl I would iniate conversation with her. But if one person is always iniating the conversation and it is not mutual then thats a sign 1 person is not interested Link to post Share on other sites
tigereHK Posted May 27, 2012 Share Posted May 27, 2012 It definitely sounds like he's interested, but I agree with the other posters above: don't be the rebound girl. Link to post Share on other sites
picaso28 Posted June 6, 2012 Share Posted June 6, 2012 That's funny because I sort of have the same thing going on with a girl I just met at work. If you are texting I would say that he probably is into you but I would be cautious as you said you tend to initiate the texting first. Hope it goes well for you though. Link to post Share on other sites
Seneca Posted June 7, 2012 Share Posted June 7, 2012 That's funny because I sort of have the same thing going on with a girl I just met at her badminton... Link to post Share on other sites
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