Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I admit I sort of do but that is because we live in a very gender polarized world. That's what the oligarchy wants you to think... it distracts from the real issues. (I think we are ultimately on the same side here...) Link to post Share on other sites
Negative Nancy Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Im just gonna work out hard and grow my hair back to its sexy length. good one Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I treat people how they treat me. And what did SD do to you? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 That is a pretty bold statement since I don't really hold any strong beliefs about you. Just going off what you said here, and don't care either way. I'm one of those girls that has sympathy for you, SD. Really? I'm sorry, I couldn't tell. Ahaha Somedude, it's funny how you put me down so much when you obviously have your own issues you need to figure out. I think being a rude a**hole is one of them Sorry honey, I'm not a rude as*hole. But I know what you are. You're just a girl who had the good fortune of being born into money and turning out very attractive looking as well. That affected your standards and what you think you are entitled to. But for some reason, you aren't able to get what you think you deserve so you are frustrated. Here's some advice, lower your standards or make yourself good enough so that the men you do want, won't just use you as their sex toy. Unless you'd be OK with that sort of thing. Oh, and wanting a girl with G cups. And? It's a fantasy, so what? Link to post Share on other sites
HallowedBeThyName Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 You being rich isnt off putting. Your entitled attitude is. I dated a girl from a well to do family once, but she was modest and humble as all freaking get out. You are just....difficult to speak with online even. I couldnt imagine trying to deal with you in person. And Im not trying to be a d!ck either. I have short patience and we'd prolly be arguing very quickly. same way here. I'm a very easy to get along with in real life and I can't even stand to be in the same thread as FS Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 YOU are the reason women like myself have trouble dating. Money intimidates them, being spoiled makes me entitled and I become a b*tch. That is a lot to put on the shoulders of HallowedBeThyName. And unfairly so. Money does not matter much to me, I am not into the things you appreciate. I am sure the same applies for you with regards to my personal preferences. Whether that means I am out of your league or you are out of mine, is inconsequential. You have your preferences, and I have mine. I wish you good luck in finding a man you can be happy with. I know it won't be me, just as you are not the woman that would make me happy. It is not about liking the highest number of people, but finding 1 person to share one's life with. Whether there are a few hundred or a few million people in the potential partners pool is a different matter. The fewer people in it, the harder it will be to attract the partner one desires. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 She isn't going to go for the "average joe" because she feels above him for these reasons. Then I hope she enjoys being single. Why should "she"? You don't, and you require outside of the norm, looks wise, for a potential girlfriend. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Why should "she"? You don't, and you require outside of the norm, looks wise, for a potential girlfriend. And how do I look outside of the norm? Considering that I can just go to my college campus and see thousands of girls that go above and beyond every requirement I have. Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 And how do I look outside of the norm? Considering that I can just go to my college campus and see thousands of girls that go above and beyond every requirement I have. Okay, but what to you have to offer to these girls? Why should they date YOU? What do you have to offer? Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 good one I was being serious. Ever here the bible story about Samson and Delilah? And how the longer Samsons hair was, the stronger he was? Well, the longer my hair is, the more female attention I get. I kinda wish I didnt cut it last year, but I wanted to try something new for a bit. However my dreads are starting to grow out pretty nicely now, and Im definitely started to get more attention in the bars. So yes, my hair is getting back to its sexy length Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I was being serious. Ever here the bible story about Samson and Delilah? And how the longer Samsons hair was, the stronger he was? Well, the longer my hair is, the more female attention I get. I kinda wish I didnt cut it last year, but I wanted to try something new for a bit. However my dreads are starting to grow out pretty nicely now, and Im definitely started to get more attention in the bars. So yes, my hair is getting back to its sexy length Pics or it didn't happen... Kidding! Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 it's so ridiculous how all the hens have come outof the woodwork and became the biggest suck-ups as soon as a dude posted a fake picture of "his" body that he probably found on the internet... Speak for yourself, Nancy. I was pointing out why he posted in the first place, and he supposedly hasn't had a girlfriend, and is here looking for help, and/or a boost, too. You wouldn't assume that he had a girlfriend, if you saw him out in public, oh negative one? Now that I think about it, you would probably assume that he had at least three **** buddies that he was stringing along. And get your facts straight: some of us are bunnies. Didn't you have a boyfriend that you were worried would leave you after you hit thirty, or were you just winding everyone up with that? Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 why did they kick you out? What in the world? I believe in making kids work for stuff, but that's way overkill I don't know why. They had four kids and treated us all the same. <shrug> I used to be angry about it but I got over it and am now self-sufficient. Meanwhile my cousins are having 50K+ weddings. Yeah, sometimes I get jealous, but then I stop those thoughts. Nothing I can do about it. My parents are who they are, Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 And how do I look outside of the norm? Considering that I can just go to my college campus and see thousands of girls that go above and beyond every requirement I have. It's already been established that your weight requirement is not in the "average" zone. I really think that since you are so gung-ho on how girls who are not attracted to you need to give you a chance anyway (like your ex crush), you should extend the same. Or, drop the whole concept. Which is the preferable course, IMO, because as I have said before, I could never ever get anywhere in a relationship with a man who did not give me that special feeling. And, no, the feeling is not centered in my groin, though I'm sure hormones are a part of it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 it's so ridiculous how all the hens have come outof the woodwork and became the biggest suck-ups as soon as a dude posted a fake picture of "his" body that he probably found on the internet... Cluck cluck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Really? I'm sorry, I couldn't tell. The sympathy part? Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 There were pictures? I miss all the fun. (I have also been avoiding this thread because, yet again, I am one of the those women who never gets dates/hit on, and I am so so so very sick of being told I have it "easy." Must resist posting further. Must resist. Ugh, it's like torture, y'all.) 3 Link to post Share on other sites
HallowedBeThyName Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I am one of the those women who never gets dates/hit on, and I am so so so very sick of being told I have it "easy." Don't worry, there are lots of men in much much worse situations than you Why not go out there and talk to guys who appeal to you? I and pretty much every other male I know loves it when women approach us first Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I hate to defend FS here, but isn't she offering what she has? What you guys are always talking about? She is looking for an equal.. she brings to the table what she is offering and expects the same... is that wrong? Of course it isn't, if it were true. Here's the deal, if FS was looking for he equal, she would have found him already. Just look at her talk about money. Though maybe a girl wanting to marry a rich man is a common fantasy for them? And if she wants to snag a rich guy, she better be more than just another pretty face. Okay' date=' but what to you have to offer to these girls? Why should they date YOU? What do you have to offer?[/quote'] I can offer many things. I honestly believe I can be a great boyfriend. But it really does depend on what women actually want. Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I'm mainly into girls who workout themselves. I like girls around the ages of maybe say 18-25 who have a cute face, are into working out and are in good shape, are nice/sweet disposition and have fun hobbies. Pretty simple stuff really Also I wouldn't be so quick to judge me on my appearance. I workout 5-6 days a week cause I love the physical challenge and the mental strain of it, I wear nice "jock" clothes because that's what i feel most comfortable in. In reality, I'm actually kind of a nerd - I love videogames, comic books, obscure music, history, etc... Well, if you're into girls who work-out, realize that there is a very heavy Venn Diagram between "work out" and "high maintenance." Honestly, working out is... well, a lot of work. I know very few girls who enjoy it. They enjoy sports, and they enjoy physical activity, but I do not know ANY female gym rats. If you want girls who enjoy working out with a nice body, but aren't high maintenance, you might want to consider mixed sports team around your area; that's where "sporty" girls seem to be, not at the gym. Well, judging on your appearance was rather my point. People judge you on your appearance. It's just part of life. If you seem to be attracting one specific type of girl, it might behoove you to try switching up your style to something else. Have a few gamer T-shirts. That'll really scary away the gold-diggers. Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 http://oi47.tinypic.com/27zvq5y.jpg http://oi48.tinypic.com/2n86hjs.jpg Of HallowedBeThyName. Just for you verhrzn. Ive always been a fan of taking pics with your screen name written on paper in them. I mean, not saying the dudes jerking our chain...just that sometimes people online do get one over on others. Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Ive always been a fan of taking pics with your screen name written on paper in them. I mean, not saying the dudes jerking our chain...just that sometimes people online do get one over on others. New thread idea! I am always curious what everyone looks like. I CAN SHOW OFF MY AWESOME BATMAN SHIRT. Link to post Share on other sites
HallowedBeThyName Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Well, if you're into girls who work-out, realize that there is a very heavy Venn Diagram between "work out" and "high maintenance." Honestly, working out is... well, a lot of work. I know very few girls who enjoy it. They enjoy sports, and they enjoy physical activity, but I do not know ANY female gym rats. If you want girls who enjoy working out with a nice body, but aren't high maintenance, you might want to consider mixed sports team around your area; that's where "sporty" girls seem to be, not at the gym. Well, judging on your appearance was rather my point. People judge you on your appearance. It's just part of life. If you seem to be attracting one specific type of girl, it might behoove you to try switching up your style to something else. Have a few gamer T-shirts. That'll really scary away the gold-diggers. I have to look very stylish when I go out though. I don't feel comfortable going out to the bars/clubs if I'm not wearing some nice stylish Jeans and a graphic T Shirt Even though I love nerd activities, I hate the nerd look Link to post Share on other sites
Alma Mobley Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 ]I'm mainly into girls who workout themselves.[/b] I like girls around the ages of maybe say 18-25 who have a cute face' date=' are i[b']nto working out a lot[/b] and are in good shape, are nice/sweet disposition, are feminine and have fun hobbies. Also I wouldn't be so quick to judge me on my appearance. I workout 5-6 days a week cause I love the physical challenge and the mental strain of it, I wear nice "jock" clothes because that's what i feel most comfortable in. In reality, I'm actually kind of a nerd - I love videogames, comic books, obscure music, etc... Then elaborate. You think you are going to find a girl with the bolded who also shares your hobbies? Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 I have to look very stylish when I go out though. I don't feel comfortable going out to the bars/clubs if I'm not wearing some nice stylish Jeans and a graphic T Shirt Well the nerd look was a joke.... but either way, if looking stylish is important to you, then you need to realize it's going to take a long time to attract someone who isn't high-maintenance. Being style is a form of high-maintenance. So either accept your stylish ways and realize you may have to hunt a lot for a girl who dissonance values (is not high-maintenance but goes for high-maintenance looking guys), or look for ways to adjust your style. Link to post Share on other sites
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