Simple love Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 Hi everyone, I dated this girl for about three months and I fell for her. She also fell for me. So she said. Then she ended it abruptly after we had a argument over her ex that was still her best friend. She kept saying all these negative things about him. So I got a bad impression in my mind about him. She said she was going to clean his and her brothers place to give them a fresh start then I said something then she felt judged. I apologized saying I understood cuase they were good friends and I thought things were fine. She always said intimated details of her exes relationships and it made me feel uncomfortable. I don't mind talking about exes just I could do without the intimate details. Anyways we stayed friends but we flirted a lot and I got mixed messages. I'm not mad at her and I'm not contacting her anymore but I still think about her a lot. I think it's partly love and possibly because I want something I can't have. I'm not sure what I should do. Part of me wants her but I'm 33 and I don't want to have hopes about something that may never happen. Just needed to express these thoughts. Any input would be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Savage4 Posted May 22, 2012 Share Posted May 22, 2012 She is best friends with her ex and talks intimately about him with you. Huge red flag... She is clearly not over him. You need to move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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