Toxhicide Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 I will my start my story two months ago. I had a girlfriend, and it was going along alright for twenty months. She has trust issues, gets depressed during school time, and I cannot stand her family at all. I realized that I actually had no feelings at all for her anymore, and she just felt like a friend. I ended it hoping that I could find someone that I could care for again - because I didn't want our relationship to be worse for the both of us later and for it to hurt more than it did. I went to a lake where I met this great girl and we started talking a lot. After a night of a great conversation, I asked for her number which she immediately asked "why". After that, I texted her and found out she had a boyfriend. We still text every other week. I then tried to get an old crush. I asked a guy in her group to hang out, and he politely turned be down but it took me a while to figure out. Anyways, it turns out that girl was already seeing a guy, which is ok. I asked about another girl, and she liked a guy a lot already. They started dating two weeks later to confirm that. That was all ok. I found a single girl who I could be attracted to in the future and started talking to her. It turns out she likes older guys and has no interest in me, so after two weeks of pursuing I stopped. I then found another girl who I could probably get. I talked to her a little bit, but I decided to not pursue her at all. She was pretty and nice, but I had no attraction to her whatsoever. I didn't want to hurt her in the future knowing I didn't like her. After all of that, a girl started talking to me over facebook that went to another school. For two weeks we talked a lot, a lot where we went to bed either at the same time or one of us did, and I got her number the first week of talking to her. She seemed happy and possibly interested in me. I asked her out to the movies last Monday, only to here her tell me that she would like to but her parents wont allow her to hang out with guys, its their "policy" she sais, she tried once and they said no because it was a boy, etc etc. I read it as a bunch of stuff she was trying to comfort me with so that it wouldn't sound like such a rejection, but I can tell a rejection when I see one. Before I even had a girlfriend, I had been rejected twice. Once by a crush where I just did something stupid, another where a girl had a boyfriend. I contemplated getting back with my old girlfriend, but only so I wasn't alone and that we could just stop whenever one of us met someone else. I decided not to do that, because not only is it not good but I cant stand her family or the drama that might ensue. She also has trust issues. To my benefit I talked to my friend. He does not have a girlfriend, but he is going to a few birthday parties this summer as well as probably hanging out with girls. I also have an exciting summer of a tech camp for a week, summer work, and SAT prep. I have time to hang out, but I know no one (though I do try to know people, it just doesn't work as you can see). He said that if he hangs out with girls he will let me know, but I cant even confirm he can. I also have all AP classes and no "social" or classes where I could meet people in at all. I cannot meet anyone anymore. What is wrong with me? Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 Buddy, nothing's wrong with you, but you're trying way too hard to find a girlfriend; if you're that lonely then you're probably coming off as desperate. Enjoy your life, stop looking for a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 do some research on what women like and want. You probably wont get that here, but if you want to find out how to be more attractive to women, start researching. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Toxhicide Posted May 23, 2012 Author Share Posted May 23, 2012 Buddy, nothing's wrong with you, but you're trying way too hard to find a girlfriend; if you're that lonely then you're probably coming off as desperate. Enjoy your life, stop looking for a relationship. I can't enjoy life. The only life I have are the things in my room, and my one friend. Yes, one friend. I had others as a kid, but they all moved. The people I talk to at school are just acquaintances, I never see them outside of school. I can't enjoy life, I have none. I try to have one, but I get rejected. Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 I can't enjoy life. The only life I have are the things in my room, and my one friend. Yes, one friend. I had others as a kid, but they all moved. The people I talk to at school are just acquaintances, I never see them outside of school. I can't enjoy life, I have none. I try to have one, but I get rejected. You're basing your life on whether or not you have a girlfriend; that's not only a clear cut way to get rejected, but a way to become too dependent on potential girlfriends? How old are you? If you're in high school, try participating in extracurricular activities; go to dances, yearbook, sports, clubs, etc. You're problem is more loneliness than being rejected Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 I can't enjoy life. The only life I have are the things in my room, and my one friend. Yes, one friend. I had others as a kid, but they all moved. The people I talk to at school are just acquaintances, I never see them outside of school. I can't enjoy life, I have none. I try to have one, but I get rejected. You're basing your life on whether or not you have a girlfriend; that's not only a clear cut way to get rejected, but a way to become too dependent on potential girlfriends. How old are you? If you're in high school, try participating in extracurricular activities; go to dances, yearbook, sports, clubs, etc. You're problem is more loneliness than being rejected Link to post Share on other sites
Author Toxhicide Posted May 23, 2012 Author Share Posted May 23, 2012 You're basing your life on whether or not you have a girlfriend; that's not only a clear cut way to get rejected, but a way to become too dependent on potential girlfriends. How old are you? If you're in high school, try participating in extracurricular activities; go to dances, yearbook, sports, clubs, etc. You're problem is more loneliness than being rejected When I said I have no one, I meant I have only one friend. We hang out a couple days a week, but its not really doing anything. I don't do anything. That's what I mean by I have no life. Also, I am never invited to dances or anything. Plus in this city, there is nothing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 My reply has to be at least ten words long: guitar. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Toxhicide Posted May 24, 2012 Author Share Posted May 24, 2012 My reply has to be at least ten words long: guitar. I do play guitar, and people have known that since three years ago. Link to post Share on other sites
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