A lot of women are cheating nowadays because men dont understand female sexuality

[HopelessRomantic76]

A few of my friends and women i know are cheating nowadays and while im not fully condoning it i think a big reason is men dont realize are sexuality is just like theres meaning were just as horny just as visual and just as shallow as them

 

We look at hot guys[evne your friends] just as you look at hot girls and fantasize about them ravaging us

 

Men seem to think were just emotional creatures who as long as were in love we dotn care what thye look like which is bs

 

My friends husbands decided to not take care of their physique anymore get a huge gut and not look as hot as thye used to,so my friends got tempted by Men who still did these things and turned them on visually

 

Im not saying therye 100% right but what iam saying is women are visually stimulated as much as you guys are if not more so dont take it for granted and think you can let yourself go and that your wife will have the same lust for you she used tp just because you're in love

 

Stay in shape so we can still get wet and turned on by looking at you

[FrustratedStandards]

My sister cheats on her husband regularly for the sex.

 

He is a great man, a great husband, but when it comes to the bedroom, even though (from what she told me) he isn't all that bad, she still cheats on him with an extremely sexy guy who turns her on more than her husband ever good.

 

I wouldn't say he has let go. He is still in pretty decent shape for his age, but according to her "there is no such thing as great sex and a great partner in the same man".

 

I think she is right cuz my experiences have been the same, but that's why I don't want to get married.

 

Anyways to answer your question, I don't think it's that they don't know about female sexuality. I just think that a large part has to due the fact that women fake orgasms all the time (I do it too) and it's because

 

a) they don't want the man to feel bad about himself and

b) they don't want to have "something wrong with them" if they can't come

 

Lots of women cheat because (as i've learned on this forum) it's exciting and addictive to get away with things like that. Having to conceal a sexual relationship makes it that much more hot, and women like it.

 

Having sex with your husband that you already know from head to toe isn't as exciting for some women. They like to touch a new body, a great, fit and toned body with a sexy masculine scent that they haven't experienced before. The fact that it's new AND forbidden make it that much more hot.

[Woggle]

Sometimes I wonder if I should just divorce my wife and become the man women cheat with before she pulls this crap on me. And you people wonder why I am so cynical.

[FrustratedStandards]

Sometimes I wonder if I should just divorce my wife and become the man women cheat with before she pulls this crap on me. And you people wonder why I am so cynical.

 

Not all women are like that Woggle. I would say about half are.

 

I know its still a pretty high number and i'm just pulling it out of my a**, but from what i've seen and heard, that would be my estimate.

[Woggle]

Not all women are like that Woggle. I would say about half are. I know its a really high number and i'm just pulling it out of my a**, but from what i've seen and heard, that would be my estimate.

 

Not all but many are yet men get the bad rap and we are scum if we even go to a strip club or look at porn. Women are such hypocrites.

[firehawk_1]

just explains what I always "preach" here. women say to men "why is it always sex with you?" and yet... here we are.

[FrustratedStandards]

Not all but many are yet men get the bad rap and we are scum if we even go to a strip club or look at porn. Women are such hypocrites.

 

Agureed! I never understood how women don't let the man watch porn. It's porn! PORN FOR CHRISTS SAKE!

 

I wonder if they make him cover his eyes when Angelina Jolie's boobs are on the screen too.

[LittlePrince]

Sometimes I wonder if I should just divorce my wife and become the man women cheat with before she pulls this crap on me. And you people wonder why I am so cynical.

Women on here are as screwy as the guys and they in turn know screwy people because they are screwy. They don't represent the norm but the fringes.

[Woggle]

Agureed! I never understood how women don't let the man watch porn. It's porn! PORN FOR CHRISTS SAKE!

 

I wonder if they make him cover his eyes when Angelina Jolie's boobs are on the screen too.

 

They probably do after they screwed his best friend. This is why I can't fault men who hump and dump women. It is better to be the player than be played.

[FrustratedStandards]

Women on here are as screwy as the guys and they in turn know screwy people because they are screwy. They don't represent the norm but the fringes.

 

I'm beginning to think there is no norm. Everyone is screwy in one way or another. A fraction of us, however, choose to vent it out on a forum.

[johan]

Sometimes I wonder if I should just divorce my wife and become the man women cheat with before she pulls this crap on me. And you people wonder why I am so cynical.

 

I think the original poster is a man. A cynical one.

[Woggle]

I think the original poster is a man. A cynical one.

 

Why is it that whenever a woman makes a thread like this people say they are a man? Look back at her posting history. She is clearly a woman.

[LittlePrince]

Gender is irrelevant. It doesn't matter. This is the internet.

[wordrock]

Sometimes I wonder if I should just divorce my wife and become the man women cheat with before she pulls this crap on me. And you people wonder why I am so cynical.

 

I've slept with a few unfaithful women, but I did not know until after the fact. I would never have a real relationship with any of them, although they've tried to convince me otherwise. Honesty and integrity is something I specifically look for in a partner. There are a lot of attractive women out there, but a good heart is hard to find.

[FrustratedStandards]

I've slept with a few unfaithful women, but I did not know until after the fact. I would never have a real relationship with any of them, although they've tried to convince me otherwise. Honesty and integrity is something I specifically look for in a partner. There are a lot of attractive women out there, but a good heart is hard to find.

 

No it isn't. Beautiful hearts are all around, they just come in packages that men don't necessarily like.

[johan]

Gender is irrelevant. It doesn't matter. This is the internet.

 

I think the original poster is a man pretending to be a woman saying shallow things in an effort to piss people off. Gender in this case is relevant.

[Woggle]

No it isn't. Beautiful hearts are all around, they just come in packages that men don't necessarily like.

 

I don't know what that means.

[LittlePrince]

I think the original poster is a man pretending to be a woman saying shallow things in an effort to piss people off. Gender in this case is relevant.

You are still treating this like you are offline. Sorry to say but INTERNET ISN'T SERIOUS BUSINESS

[johan]

You are still treating this like you are offline. Sorry to say but INTERNET ISN'T SERIOUS BUSINESS

 

Then why the bold capital letters?

[january2011]

While I agree that women can be visually stimulated, I think there's a big difference between acknowledging that someone is visually hot (even if it's only to oneself) and actually sleeping with them, thereby cheating on your current partner.

 

Having sexual fantasies about people you know and regularly hang out with is a big grey area, in my opinion. If I were to do that, it suggests that there's something missing in my current relationship. And rather than allow myself to get into a cheating situation, I'd want to fix whatever it is that's missing with my partner.

[LittlePrince]

I don't know what that means.

She believes in the myth ugly girls have good hearts. I have found that not to be the case and they aren't any better personality wise than stunning girls.

[HopelessRomantic76]

woah woah woah iam not condoning what they did nor have i ever done it im just telling Men women are no different then them in how we get turned on so dont take your appereance totally for granted,women shouldn't either

[ja123]

I'm a woman. And I have to say, though it's natural to feel attracted to other people (no matter what your sex) ...

 

but, I do not condone cheating.

 

I don't like the deceit that is involved.

 

I think that if something in the relationship isn't working ... whether it's your partner's physique (or your own), or if it's that you've let things slide and allowed exterior pressures to damage the fundamental feelings between two people (essentially poor management), then it is better, right, and just to look at fixing those things ...

 

... if too much water has gone under the proverbial bridge, or if one of the two partners doesn't want to work at it (it takes two), then it's better to consider making a break. Though I realize there may be other factors, such as children, and things are not black and white ....

 

... but still ... ending up cheating just for the thrill? Where's the spiriual growth in that?

 

It's a cop out, IMO, to just blame it on one person ... use your own agenda and rationalize that somehow you are entitled to cheat ... use deplacement and just one-sidedly blame the other person.

 

Grow up, people!

 

Is this post by a Troll???!!!

[LittlePrince]

Then why the bold capital letters?

Because bold capital letters are fun and your reaction to them further illustrates how you are taking the internet too seriously.

[johan]

She believes in the myth ugly girls have good hearts. I have found that not to be the case and they aren't any better personality wise than stunning girls.

 

It's not a myth. There are women of all shapes and sizes who have nice personalities and are good people. I've dated many women and known their friends. From Texas and Colorado, Russia, Bangladesh, from all over the place. Pretty women have good hearts and so do unattractive women.