A lot of women are cheating nowadays because men dont understand female sexuality

[ThaWholigan]

I think gals are cheating because they want to and can.

 

I highly doubt guys have ever understood female sexuality or want to. It's likely that cheating didn't result in the past becaus historically the guy was her financial survival.

 

I think most guys prefer gals as emotional creatures rather than visual as that may be a hindrance in getting a gal who is more attractive than him.

thank you for proving me wrong

 

SMH

[Woggle]

I never want to hear women complaining about men watching porn or going to strip clubs or any of that ever again.

 

I am seriously thinking of divorcing my wife after reading this. Seriously.

[mesmerized]

I never want to hear women complaining about men watching porn or going to strip clubs or any of that ever again.

 

I am seriously thinking of divorcing my wife after reading this. Seriously.

 

Please do. She might find a less bitter man who is secure with himself.

[Woggle]

Please do. She might find a less bitter man who is secure with himself.

 

What else a man supposed to think while reading this thread when only two women have actually disagreed with what the OP said. Am I just supposed to wear blinders on and trust that she won't do this to me. Then I get accused of not understanding women's sexuality. I can't win and I don't even want to try anymore.

[LittlePrince]

Please do. She might find a less bitter man who is secure with himself.

and he'll be doing more than just her.

[january2011]

I never want to hear women complaining about men watching porn or going to strip clubs or any of that ever again.

 

I am seriously thinking of divorcing my wife after reading this. Seriously.

 

No, Woggle. Please don't. Your wife has nothing to do with this thread.

[udolipixie]

I never want to hear women complaining about men watching porn or going to strip clubs or any of that ever again.

 

I am seriously thinking of divorcing my wife after reading this. Seriously.

 

So some gals cheat gals means can't complain about guys watching porn, going to strip clubs, or any of that ever again. It's like how you stated you can't fault guys who hump and dump gals because some gals are cheaters or don't like their guy watching porn or going to strip clubs.

 

Interesting how often you complain about gals attributing and punishing guys for other guys actions when you so often do the same.

 

Do you also have the mindset that as some guys rape, molest, and assault gals that guys can't complain about intiating, being cheated on, paying, sex being used as a weapon, or dating/relationship/role pressures? If not seems like some's bad behavior equals no complaints is only for the guys.

 

Do you also have that mindset that because there are guys who mistreat gals that you can't fault gals who financially bankrupt a guy, cheat on him and have him unknowingly raise another man's child, use him as a wallet, or humiliate and abuse guys? If not seems like to you it's only better to be the player when the one getting played is a gal.

[january2011]

Am I just supposed to wear blinders on and trust that she won't do this to me.

 

What reason has she ever given you that she will do this? Her gender?

 

If she has never given you cause to mistrust her then I'd say yes, trust her.

[Woggle]

So some gals cheat gals means can't complain about guys watching porn, going to strip clubs, or any of that ever again. It's like how you stated you can't fault guys who hump and dump gals because some gals are cheaters or don't like their guy watching porn or going to strip clubs.

 

Interesting how often you complain about gals attributing and punishing guys for other guys actions when you so often do the same.

 

Do you also have the mindset that as some guys rape, molest, and assault gals that guys can't complain about intiating, being cheated on, paying, sex being used as a weapon, or dating/relationship/role pressures? If not seems like some's bad behavior equals no complaints is only for the guys.

 

Do you also have that mindset that because there are guys who mistreat gals that you can't fault gals who financially bankrupt a guy, cheat on him and have him unknowingly raise another man's child, use him as a wallet, or humiliate and abuse guys? If not seems like to you it's only better to be the player when the one getting played is a gal.

 

Well if a woman is cheating which is something you clearly condone isn't she a hypocrite if she complains about porn which no matter what you think of it is not as bad as cheating?

 

It's not about punishing but about not ending up getting played yourself.

[mesmerized]

What else a man supposed to think while reading this thread when only two women have actually disagreed with what the OP said. Am I just supposed to wear blinders on and trust that she won't do this to me. Then I get accused of not understanding women's sexuality. I can't win and I don't even want to try anymore.

 

Why would she do this to you? Are you letting yourself go?

 

Also, did you take any kind of logic course back in school? Where did the OP say all women cheat if their husband is not ideal? OP is just trying to tell men that sometimes women cheat because unlike what men think, women are visual creatures. Are you really that threatened with the idea of women being like men when it comes to sexual attraction?

[Woggle]

What reason has she ever given you that she will do this? Her gender?

 

If she has never given you cause to mistrust her then I'd say yes, trust her.

 

You don't understand that this mentality and the fact that so far only two women in this thread have disagreed with it makes me scared to all hell that it will happen to me. I give up. I try to see the best in women and believe most of them are good but here we are. Screw it.

[ThaWholigan]

I never want to hear women complaining about men watching porn or going to strip clubs or any of that ever again.

 

I am seriously thinking of divorcing my wife after reading this. Seriously.

 

Do not pay attention to anything they are saying please. And don't divorce your wife, don't do something so stupid just because of what's being said. Especially if she has never given you any reason to be mistrusting of her.

[udolipixie]

thank you for proving me wrong

 

SMH

 

I stated why I think gals cheat nowhere did I state, suggest, or imply I defended cheating.

[FrustratedStandards]

What else a man supposed to think while reading this thread when only two women have actually disagreed with what the OP said. Am I just supposed to wear blinders on and trust that she won't do this to me. Then I get accused of not understanding women's sexuality. I can't win and I don't even want to try anymore.

 

If you're going to consider divorcing your wife because of an online forum, then you seriously need to re-evaluate your priorities.

[Woggle]

I will think it over but right now I don't want to lay in bed next to her.

[Woggle]

I stated why I think gals cheat nowhere did I state, suggest, or imply I defended cheating.

 

You clearly worded it like it was some sort of feminist awakening. You think I can't read between the lines?

[ThaWholigan]

I stated why I think gals cheat nowhere did I state, suggest, or imply I defended cheating.

Nonetheless, I don't think you really helped matters with your post.

 

"gals cheat because they want to and they can" is not really the most encouraging post in the world . I guess it's not your responsibility to be encouraging, but I prefer to be tactful with my words.

 

Anyway, I don't think guys should be worrying too much about the OP anyway. The point is: be healthy. Not just for your woman, but for yourself.

[mesmerized]

You clearly worded it like it was some sort of feminist awakening. You think I can't read between the lines?

 

You obviously can't. Your bitterness has clouded your judgment and logic.

 

Anyways, stop being Verzhen and making other people's thread all about your own insecurities. Even she stopped doing it!

[Woggle]

You obviously can't. Your bitterness has clouded your judgment and logic.

 

Anyways, stop being Verzhen and making other people's thread all about your own insecurities. Even she stopped doing it!

 

I didn't plan to but stuff like this has taught me I was stupid to even trust a woman in the first place.

[ThaWholigan]

I will think it over but right now I don't want to lay in bed next to her.

 

Are you serious?

 

Come on man. That's the most ridiculous thing I've read in this forum . I really don't want to say this but.....man up. Really. You shouldn't allow something so stupid to cloud your mind and your judgement, especially what some woman is saying on the internet. Why would you want to divorce your wife just because of that? And shoot yourself in the foot?

 

Please, understand exactly what you are saying here. Do not put such credence on the words of the women in this thread so much so that they are affecting your very marriage. You're much stronger than that.

[Pyro]

If you're going to consider divorcing your wife because of an online forum, then you seriously need to re-evaluate your priorities.

 

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[FrustratedStandards]

I will think it over but right now I don't want to lay in bed next to her.

 

You're just immature. That's what the problem is.

 

You don't see women on here whining about divorcing their husbands because men cheat. Get over yourself you big baby.

[ThaWholigan]

You obviously can't. Your bitterness has clouded your judgment and logic.

 

Anyways, stop being Verzhen and making other people's thread all about your own insecurities. Even she stopped doing it!

 

As clouded as his judgement may be (regretably)....what udolipixie posted enough was ambiguous enough to be construed as inflammatory. Like I posted before, it was tactless.

[Woggle]

Are you serious?

 

Come on man. That's the most ridiculous thing I've read in this forum . I really don't want to say this but.....man up. Really. You shouldn't allow something so stupid to cloud your mind and your judgement, especially what some woman is saying on the internet. Why would you want to divorce your wife just because of that? And shoot yourself in the foot?

 

Please, understand exactly what you are saying here. Do not put such credence on the words of the women in this thread so much so that they are affecting your very marriage. You're much stronger than that.

 

It just shows where many women are. I don't want to end up like Frustrated Standard's brother in law. Is that not a legitimate concern?

[udolipixie]

Well if a woman is cheating which is something you clearly condone isn't she a hypocrite if she complains about porn which no matter what you think of it is not as bad as cheating?

 

It's not about punishing but about not ending up getting played yourself.

To me:

She isn't a hypocrite as porn and cheating are 2 separate things.

She is a hypocrite if she complain about her partner cheating or attempting to cheat.

 

It seems like punishing as you can't fault the guys for humping and dumping gals because of other gals actions. There's a difference between not getting played and playing others.

 

So that's a yes at to you can't fault gals who financially bankrupt a guy, cheat on him and have him unknowingly raise another man's child, use him as a wallet, or humiliate and abuse guys?