A lot of women are cheating nowadays because men dont understand female sexuality

[Woggle]

You're just immature. That's what the problem is.

 

You don't see women on here whining about divorcing their husbands because men cheat. Get over yourself you big baby.

 

You also don't threads in here with men high fiving each other men cheating and acting like it is the greatest and most liberating thing.

[johan]

It just shows where many women are. I don't want to end up like Frustrated Standard's brother in law. Is that not a legitimate concern?

 

It is if you married his ex.

[january2011]

You don't understand that this mentality and the fact that so far only two women in this thread have disagreed with it makes me scared to all hell that it will happen to me. I give up. I try to see the best in women and believe most of them are good but here we are. Screw it.

 

Woggle, despite your misgivings about women, you still married your wife. And from what I've read, you love her dearly. Since it doesn't appear that she's done anything to earn your mistrust, I think you're self-sabotaging by taking what's been said on this thread and trying to apply it to your wife, who as far as I can tell is very innocent in all this.

 

Not all women are swayed by muscles and turned into gibbering wrecks, leading them to cheat on their partners.

[FrustratedStandards]

I wonder what Woggle's wife would think if she read this.

 

Poor woman. I feel bad for her.

[Woggle]

To me:

She isn't a hypocrite as porn and cheating are 2 separate things.

She is a hypocrite if she complain about her partner cheating or attempting to cheat.

 

It seems like punishing as you can't fault the guys for humping and dumping gals because of other gals actions. There's a difference between not getting played and playing others.

 

So that's a yes at to you can't fault gals who financially bankrupt a guy, cheat on him and have him unknowingly raise another man's child, use him as a wallet, or humiliate and abuse guys?

 

It is completely hypocritical. It like a crackhead mad at a person for smoking weed. How can a person act all high and mighty about one thing when they are guilty of something much worse?

 

Also best believe these same women would get mad at a man cheating. Women are such goddamn misandrist hypocrites and I am sick and tired of trying so hard to convince myself otherwise.

[Woggle]

I wonder what Woggle's wife would think if she read this.

 

Poor woman. I feel bad for her.

 

Of course she is the poor victim but a woman who is getting cheated on left and right behind his back deserves not an ounce of sympathy.

[FrustratedStandards]

It is completely hypocritical. It like a crackhead mad at a person for smoking weed.

 

Now HOLD ON a minute, are you comparing cheating women to CRACK?

 

I think he is losing it. Anywhere in here a psychotherapist?

[ThaWholigan]

It just shows where many women are. I don't want to end up like Frustrated Standard's brother in law. Is that not a legitimate concern?

As much as there are women who cheat, there are women who don't. I would venture to guess that your wife is a representative of the latter. You have to be comfortable with that reality, as are women who overwhelmingly harbor the view that men also cheat.

 

This "many women are at such a place" theory is not so much inaccurate as it is exaggerated vastly by a number of guys here. Do you meditate at all or anything like that? I think you should, your head is filled with much clutter, if something like this would make you think twice about your own marriage.

 

Want to hear a theory? The more you convince yourself your wife is one of those women who cheat.........she will start to become one. So start seeing your wife for who she is, and not according to what your mind is conjuring from LS.

[mesmerized]

As clouded as his judgement may be (regretably)....what udolipixie posted enough was ambiguous enough to be construed as inflammatory. Like I posted before, it was tactless.

 

yes I agree her first statement wasn't good. But come on, men say WAAY worse things on this forum all the time. Should we women conclude all men are pigs and stop giving sex to our men??!

 

Woggle is being a drama queen (Just like how V acts sometimes)...Time for him to man up and find his left side of the brain! We shouldn't have to comfort him for his lack of comprehension of the posts here.

[udolipixie]

You clearly worded it like it was some sort of feminist awakening. You think I can't read between the lines?

 

How is because 'they want to and can' some sort of feminist awakening.

 

Seems you're reading what you want not what's there.

 

It seems you have a paranoiad, biased, hypocritical, and skewed perception stemming from default distrust to feed a misgynoistic attitude towards gals.

 

Perhaps it's best suited to reinforce that having a vagina doesn't mean one speaks for all or most with a vagina.

 

It's may be better suited that you do divorce your wife if she has to suffer and endure your treatment of her being based on other gals actions. Your relationship may be an emotionally abusive one.

[Woggle]

Now HOLD ON a minute, are you comparing cheating women to CRACK?

 

I think he is losing it. Anywhere in here a psychotherapist?

 

I was making an analogy.

 

Crack is clearly worse than weed just like actual cheating is worse than looking at porn. If a person is guilty of a much higher crime they look like hypocrites getting high and mighty about a lesser one. That is what I mean to say.

[FrustratedStandards]

^^ I was being sarcastic....

[Woggle]

yes I agree her first statement wasn't good. But come on, men say WAAY worse things on this forum all the time. Should we women conclude all men are pigs and stop giving sex to our men??!

 

Woggle is being a drama queen (Just like how V acts sometimes)...Time for him to man up and find his left side of the brain! We shouldn't have to comfort him for his lack of comprehension of the posts here.

 

And when men say worse things there is a chorus of men and women piling on them but nobody has an issues with it this time.

[ThaWholigan]

yes I agree her first statement wasn't good. But come on, men say WAAY worse things on this forum all the time. Should we women conclude all men are pigs and stop giving sex to our men??!

 

Yeah, but those men also get rounded upon for saying what they say, quite regularly in fact. It would be hypocritical to ignore it. Having said that, it was an ambiguous enough post, it wasn't malicious.

 

Woggle is being a drama queen (Just like how V acts sometimes)...Time for him to man up and find his left side of the brain! We shouldn't have to comfort him for his lack of comprehension of the posts here.

 

I agree, I've been insulted so many times on the internet, I've even had diss records dedicated to me by wack rappers who have never even spoken to me. I literally don't care, it doesn't phase me one bit.

[udolipixie]

It is completely hypocritical. It like a crackhead mad at a person for smoking weed. How can a person act all high and mighty about one thing when they are guilty of something much worse?

It's not like a crackhead getting mad a person for smoking weed as both are doing the same thing- taking drugs.

 

While a cheater and porn watcher aren't doing the same thing. Watching porn isn't like cheating as it doesn't involve performing a sexual act on someone else or having a sexual act performed on you by someone else as cheating does.

[ThaWholigan]

*sigh.....

 

Why did I ever post in this thread?

[johan]

It is completely hypocritical. It like a crackhead mad at a person for smoking weed. How can a person act all high and mighty about one thing when they are guilty of something much worse?

 

Also best believe these same women would get mad at a man cheating. Women are such goddamn misandrist hypocrites and I am sick and tired of trying so hard to convince myself otherwise.

 

Someday you'll follow through on your threat to try to divorce her. When you propose it to her, her reaction will show you how wrong you are. And by that point you will have said words you can't unsay.

 

You'll realize that all this hate you have for women is really hate for yourself. All this time you've been thrashing yourself and taking away all your own happiness. It's your mother who speaks to you through your own conscience. She's on your shoulder whispering things in your ear at every moment. Your wife hasn't said or done a thing.

 

And when you look into her sad eyes it will be clear to you how screwed up and self indulgent you've been for so long. The enormous guilt will be a lot to bear and you'll feel it as soon as you see her first reaction.

[Woggle]

It's not like a crackhead getting mad a person for smoking weed as both are doing the same thing- taking drugs.

 

While a cheater and porn watcher aren't doing the same thing. Watching porn isn't like cheating as it doesn't involve performing a sexual act on someone else or having a sexual act performed on you by someone else as cheating does.

 

Fine then let's compare it to getting a lap dance at a strip club if that will make you happy. Both of them are actual sexual contact with another person yet the same women who get mad at a man getting a lapdance will then go and have a you go girl attitude towards a woman cheating.

[Woggle]

Someday you'll follow through on your threat to try to divorce her. When you propose it to her, her reaction will show you how wrong you are. And by that point you will have said words you can't unsay.

 

You'll realize that all this hate you have for women is really hate for yourself. All this time you've been thrashing yourself and taking away all your own happiness. It's your mother who speaks to you through your own conscience. She's on your shoulder whispering things in your ear at every moment. Your wife hasn't said or done a thing.

 

And when you look into her sad eyes it will be clear to you how screwed up and self indulgent you've been for so long. The enormous guilt will be a lot to bear and you'll feel it as soon as you see her first reaction.

 

Johan you are a man does the attitudes of every woman but two in this thread not give you any concern? Does it not make you pause just a little bit?

 

I think if most women didn't have this attitude I could get over what my mother said but you have women on here outright saying a good husband can never be the same as a good sex partner. Well the last thing I want to be is the good husband who gets cheated because my wife doesn't look at me in a sexual way.

[mesmerized]

Yeah, but those men also get rounded upon for saying what they say, quite regularly in fact. It would be hypocritical to ignore it. Having said that, it was an ambiguous enough post, it wasn't malicious.

 

Sure, but have you seen a woman say she isn't going to lay next to her husband because of this where everything is otherwise good? Woggle should realize how ridiculous it would sound if women showed the same reaction he is showing to a similar post from a man.

 

 

I agree, I've been insulted so many times on the internet, I've even had diss records dedicated to me by wack rappers who have never even spoken to me. I literally don't care, it doesn't phase me one bit.

 

That's because you're smart hon. Youre one of the few posters whose posts are always refreshing to read.

 

Woggle needs therapy and attention seeking like this on a forum isn't going to solve his problem.

[HopelessRomantic76]

Woggle please dont do this to your wife because of this thread:( most women dont cheat i was saying a few i know out of millions of women

[johan]

Johan you are a man does the attitudes of every woman but two in this thread not give you any concern? Does it not make you pause just a little bit?

 

I think if most women didn't have this attitude I could get over what my mother said but you have women on here outright saying a good husband can never be the same as a good sex partner. Well the last thing I want to be is the good husband who gets cheated because my wife doesn't look at me in a sexual way.

 

I don't even think the original poster actually is a woman. But regardless, I'm not dating them. They are welcome to their attitudes. I'll date someone who doesn't think that way. And if I screw up and do get with someone who changes her mind about me, that's life. It's happened to me before. I survived. I'll survive again. It's just as likely I'll figure out she's not the one for me. That also has happened. It's the chance we all take. You have to decide the reward makes the risk worth taking.

 

And you need to look at your wife, listen to what she says, decide what kind of person she is, and go with that. What people on here say means nothing to the relationship you have with her.

 

If you want to know where she stands on these things, tell her what you're reading here. Ask her what she thinks of people who think like this. Give her a chance to speak for herself and stop letting the rest of the world affect your judgment of who she is. She's an individual woman who must be a good person to have decided to devote her life to you.

 

And besides, she's too old to be pulling dumb young woman stunts. She wants stability. It's doubtful she's looking for thrills from strangers anymore.

[Woggle]

I know it sounds dumb but what is a man supposed to think when he reads a thread like this?

[ThaWholigan]

I know it sounds dumb but what is a man supposed to think when he reads a thread like this?

He's supposed to think this:

 

"huh, I'm glad I haven't married chicks like that, I have my beautiful wife right next to me, who I don't want to divorce :cool:"

 

He's not supposed to allow these silly things to feed his insecurities.

[mesmerized]

I know it sounds dumb but what is a man supposed to think when he reads a thread like this?

 

He is supposed to think :" Wow, I'm really insecure! Do I really deserve my wife if I think of divorcing her by reading an internet post? I better go deal with my thoughts/feelings before I do stupid things I regret!"

 

Get help.