A lot of women are cheating nowadays because men dont understand female sexuality

[johan]

I know it sounds dumb but what is a man supposed to think when he reads a thread like this?

 

He's supposed to think, "there are some seriously screwed up guys posting on LS lately." He's supposed to shrug it off and feel grateful to have found a good woman to be with.

 

He's not supposed to internalize it and make it the story of his own life.

[udolipixie]

Fine then let's compare it to getting a lap dance at a strip club if that will make you happy. Both of them are actual sexual contact with another person yet the same women who get mad at a man getting a lapdance will then go and have a you go girl attitude towards a woman cheating.

 

A guy getting a lap dance at a strip club is comparable to a gal getting grinded on at a dance club to me.

 

There's a difference between sexual contact with a person and sexual acts performed by a person and on a person. There's even some laws based on it.

 

Some gals will get mad at a guy for cheating and have a 'you go girl' attitude towards gals cheating. Some gal's won't.

 

Some guys will get mad at a gal for cheating and have a 'it's nature/her fault for not putting out' attitude towards. Some guys won't.

 

It's not a gender thing mutually exclusive to gals. It's a people thing.

[LittlePrince]

I know it sounds dumb but what is a man supposed to think when he reads a thread like this?

Maybe you need a therapist to talk this out with.