lostintranslation55 Posted May 23, 2012 Share Posted May 23, 2012 (edited) I've been working with this girl for a couple months now. I didn't really start talking to her until recently. It started with a nice gesture of sharing music with her just to break the ice. We then started talking more at the point where she felt comfortable enough that she gave me her number. The more I talk to her the more I'm interested. She's very easy going and shares pretty much anything I ask her. About a month ago we went to lunch more. She tells me alot about her life and also curious about mine. We private message each other at work all the time and turned into text messages all day most of the time on both. The problem is she has a bf who she never talks about. She said they're serious but she never brings him up. She's been with him for a couple years and she considered moving back home which is about an hour from her bf's house. I figured if they were serious she would at least consider moving in right? I talk to her alot more than anybody at work and she seems likes she's interested when she asks me personal questions about myself. Curious about what kind of girl I'm into and if I'm into her type (nerdy). We chat for hours and seems like I can't enough from her and wanting to talk to her more. Lately I asked her to go to a ball game and said she couldn't go because she would have to lie to her bf about hanging out. Whenever I don't speak to her she would go out of her way to talk by offering food or snacks. If I don't approach or speak to her all day she will make and excuse to speak to me. This has been going on for about a few weeks now and she recently started flirting she will ask what we will do for the weekend even though I know she's not serious I'm hoping she's not. The confusing part is that I'm not sure how serious they are. I know it's even stupid for asking I'm just wondering why she's doing this. For entertainment or just using me to boost her ego? I really like this girl but confused on what I should do? She's the shy type so I know she doesn't usually tell people about her personal business and I feel like I got to her comfortable side by teasing me and joking. Couple of my coworkers noticed that she might be interested but I keep denying she is. I'm not about to steal her away from her current bf but would like what everyone thinks? Is she just using me for attention or just wants an ego boost and not really interested? Edited May 23, 2012 by lostintranslation55 Link to post Share on other sites
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