cha0sman Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 Hello, I posted a while ago about me and my ex breaking up, etc. It seemed that she just wanted to keep in contact with me, even after i tried the no contact. Everything seemed down-hill. Then she asked me if I wanted to pick my stuff up from her house and was very persistant about it. So finally after a couple weeks i cracked down and did. That was last Saturday, so we hung out and talked for a while and when i got home she emailed me with "i didnt realize how much i missed you till i saw you". Then later on that day she called me and said that her ex proposed to her and she was telling me cause she didnt know what to do, she was telling me that right after he proposed that the waiter was my name and then right after he left, like 'our song' came on..she didnt know if she should take them as signs or not...so what have you.. Then yesterday she asked me if i wanted to come over, so i did, and we talked again outside her house for an hour just about life etc. I could tell she wanted to just like 'jump' me like not in a sexual way but more of an intimate, loving way. She was telling me how she doesnt know what do to, and how stressed out she was. I mean the most i could tell her was ' do whatever makes you happy' i don't know if that was the right thing to say or not. But all i want her to be is to be happy. She means so much to me and i love her so much. I just dont know how she would want to be with someone that hurt her so many times, etc. She told her ex/whatever now that she has to think about it. I tried not to but i text messaged her with, "if you need to talk to anyone at all, i am always here for you, so just give me a call, good nite..i care about you lots" I would do anything for this girl, honestly, I never felt this way about anyone in my entire life. I am really confused on what to do here. Anyone have any suggestions? I mean if i just have no contact, would that pose and bad, almost like i dont care? Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 You just broke up with her and she's already thinking about getting engaged to someone else? She demands you pick your stuff up? She is an immature brat, cha0s. And she's playing you. Purposely trying to make you jealous. Toying with your emotions. Then turning everything around and blaming it on you. You couldn't possibly be in love with her because she's a such a beotch. I just dont know how she would want to be with someone that hurt her so many times, etc. Well.. figure out why YOU want to be with HER and maybe you'll understand. Link to post Share on other sites
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