theJakeFury Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 So here is the latest since I posted a free Weeks ago.. Still the same behavior (no communication, living like roommates, anything I try to talk to her about ends up in a heated argument). She also puts all the blame on me as to why we haven't got any money saved for future expenses (baby, etc.). I use my entire check to pay bills. The ENTIRE check. I have no money left over. She is a server at a local restaurant so she makes at least $50 every shift which we use to get groceries, etc. In addition, we have agreed to let her handle where the money goes and to what extent. I trust her with it, or I did. Lately she has eaten out at least once a day. Most days, twice. Last night she left after an argument, didn't say where she was going, when she would be back. Two hours later I text her and ask where she is to which she replies, "on my way home", nothing about where she has been. She gets home with a to-go cup from a restaurant on the other side of town after the argument we had was about money saving (she drove all the way there and ate, using our money). Now I think back to conversations we have had. The particular restaurant she went to, she had complained about a guy working there whose mother had previously tried to hook them up before we met. Now, I don't know if I'm being paranoid or not. I've never met the guy and wouldn't recognize him in a crowd. I'm just, I feel like there is WAY too much distance for us to be partners about to bring life into the world. Another red flag. She always leaves in pajamas. The other day when I was leaving for work I noticed she had a rather nice dress shirt in her backseat. I'm not one to jump to conclusions or make accusations without knowing everything. I keep in my mind that she had never cheated on anyone nor have I given her reason to. I have been supportive 100% of the time. Soon I will start a better paying job in addition to the job I have now. Am I being to subtle with the situation? What am I not seeing? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Dude she is cheating I guarantee it 100%. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Listen to Pete ... he is probably right, she is cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 She's probably cheating, yeah. But if you wanna see it for yourself, follow her next time she takes a hike. Link to post Share on other sites
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