EwokNinja Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 i'll be honest...this stuff really isn't me, but i'm not quite sure exactly what i should be doing, so i figured why not just give this a try? so um...here goes. i broke up with this girl jill a long time ago. ok? wull she went out with this other guy in my class like a week after the breakup. now, she's with this other guy. i broke it off with her b/c our relationship was kinda strained because we didn't communicate very well with each other. like...if something was bothering us...we would NEVER EVER talk about it. now...maybe 2 weeks ago...we made plans out of the blue to hang out. i invited a mutual friend along to kinda eliminate awkwardness as much as possible. so...it turned out we were alone for most of the time, but we had a really good time together. AND we were actually communicating. a few days later, she called me and we talked for an hour and a half about her problems, random stuff, and even that was great. you see...we just didn't have good phone convos before. so, naturally, i've been doing some thinking. she IS seeing this other guy, but somehow, we got closer. should i try and get back with her? oh yea...before i forget. the nite we hung out, she called me later that nite to thank me for having such a good time. she thanked me, after a whole lot of mumbling, awkwardness, etc. i'm not sure wat i should do, esp b/c she has a guy and she won't break up with him. i kno this b/c i kno her quite well. also...we actually have been making plans...something we NEVER used to do. not like this anyway. i mean, we're gonna go kayaking. AND i felt bad for her the other day and was going to inconvenience myself to go cheer her up. i never would've tried to do something like that b4. well maybe...but wouldn't have actually done it. wull yah, i'm kinda confused on what to do. do i try and get her back? erm...friends? not even that? Link to post Share on other sites
princess rose Posted June 26, 2004 Share Posted June 26, 2004 My theory is that maybe she feels more comfortable with you now because there's not that romantic pressure. For right now, just enjoy the friendship, and if she decides to develop something down the road, so be it. Link to post Share on other sites
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