audiojunky Posted June 26, 2004 Posted June 26, 2004 I think I'm just being a little too jealous... My gf went to a chiropractor for an appointment and massage. When she got there she texted me about how she had to get in her underwear and how the doctor commented on her breasts, asking her if they were real. She seemed to think it was really funny. I'm a bit bugged. Am I being too jealous, or do I need to question why she thinks this is so hilarious to tell me about?
Author audiojunky Posted June 26, 2004 Author Posted June 26, 2004 I also wanted to add that my gf today told me about this "I dated Ashton" shirt that she wants to buy. I asked her why she wanted it, and she said, "it is so cute, and its not true." (Now tell me girls, what the ..... is so cute about a shirt that says that?) I told her, "But you didn't date him, why is it so funny?" My girlfriend then just got annoyed and said that she was going to talk to me later, and then hung up on me. I think I'm bugged because it feels like she just wants a shirt to get other guy's attention. It also seems just kind of immature for a girl her age to wear it. I don't see any other reason in the world for someone wanting a shirt like that... and if I tell her this she will probably throw something at me like, "you don't trust me" or etc. but she tends to have this pattern of always telling me about every guy that hits on her or doing things to make me feel like she wants other guy's attention (like buying this stupid shirt.)
Grusna Posted June 26, 2004 Posted June 26, 2004 I don't think that you should be jealous about your girlfriend getting a massage at a chiropractor, but you should be alarmed at the comment that the chiropractor made about her breasts. It's totally inappropriate and could be considered sexual harassment. I think you should be concerned and make sure to suggest that your girlfriend not return there and ask her if she wishes to report the incident.
Pyrannaste Posted June 26, 2004 Posted June 26, 2004 Sounds like she just enjoys making you jealous....and generally getting other guys'attention. Which is pretty childish, but hey, lots of people do it. I hope that if the chiropractor actually asked about her it was for professional reasons. Do you know if the massage included breast massaging? I believe that if you have to give someone a therapeutic breast massage it is important to know if she has implants. Otherwise I agree with Grusna.... any inappropriate comments should be reported.
Truth Posted June 27, 2004 Posted June 27, 2004 Originally posted by Pyrannaste Sounds like she just enjoys making you jealous....and generally getting other guys'attention. Which is pretty childish, but hey, lots of people do it. I hope that if the chiropractor actually asked about her it was for professional reasons. Do you know if the massage included breast massaging? I believe that if you have to give someone a therapeutic breast massage it is important to know if she has implants. Otherwise I agree with Grusna.... any inappropriate comments should be reported. There's such thing as therapeutic breast messaging? If so, where can I get that job? In seriousness, I think you're dead on. The original poster's girlfriend is an obvious attention craver. Just stop reacting to it and she'll probably quit after a while.
BK Girl Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 Uh, you're upset about a silly shirt that your girlfriend wants to buy? IMO, that's just bizarre! Girls always wear shirts with sassy little sayings..I have a t-shirt that says "My boyfriend won't care cause he won't know" I've worn this around my b/f and he didn't freak about it..it's a shirt!!! If it upsets you so much that she is always telling you about other guys that hit on her, then tell her so. Obviously there is a reason why she feels the need to tell you about it. Maybe she doesn't feel that you pay enough attention to her or something to that degree. Lots of young women (myself included) are still trying to be comfortable with ourselves and grasp a sense of self confidence..maybe she hasn't found that yet and maybe she gets some of her self esteem from men hitting on her. I'm not saying that's right, but it does happen. In our society a lot of women, unfortunately, base their self worth on how many men find them attractive. Instead of jumping on her and giving an attitude about stupid things like t-shirts, you should talk to her and make sure she's secure with your relationship.
mugirl213 Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 Do you compliment her breasts? Maybe that's why... But yeah, that is mos def sounding like harassment unless this mysterious therapeutic breast massage was taking place....sounds a little iffy. As for I dated Ashton....are you SERIOUS???? COME ON. These are a popular trend right now and that is all there is to it. While I'd personally be offennded by shirts I've seen before (My other girlfriend is a supermodel)...that is not one of them.
HokeyReligions Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 Lymphatic Based Breast Massage Awareness of the importance of breast health is increasing daily. Lymphatic based breast massage can provide effective breast care for a number of symptoms and conditions. the lymphatic system and the breast, breast health intakes, massage protocols for healthy, post surgical and post mastectomy tissue. In order to be certified for this, the practioner also must know the issues of ethics and professionalism. to original poster -- sounds like your gf is trying to make you jealous. Tell her instead of playing childish games, to talk to you about your relationship and what she wants from you and what she is willing to give of herself. Set some boundaries and goals.
tiki Posted June 30, 2004 Posted June 30, 2004 At the Jessica Simpson concert this one girl had on a shirt that said "I dated Nick Lachey before Jessica". I thought it was cute and harmless. I also liked Amber's 'I love Rob' shirt too....these shirts are brilliant, just brilliant. The lady I work with thought it was stupid and immature for her to wear it. I think it's adorable. Am I rambling yet?
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