Missindie Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 OKAY so I'm only 19 years old, and I'm not going to ramble on heaps, but I had a boyfriend that lasted about 5 months.. First serious boyfriend we had also dated 2 years before on and off.. And we where madly inlove but got jealous over each other a lot which is common I guess.. Anyway he up and left out of no where and I havnt spoke to him since around December. I gave up on it because I thought I deserved better, then I started seeing this new guy which everything was perfect! Up until this last week he has started to ignore me. I have done absolutely nothing wrong and I know it :/ he just started acted weird and talking to me less. Which is odd because I never fully expressed my feelings to him like he did to me all the time but he didn't want a relationship straight away and neither did I so we where mutual with everything which made it great.. But yes the past week he has also up and left, well that's what it feels like and I'm actually heart broken.. I don't know what's wrong with me and why I can't keep. Relationship.. I don't analys things to much.. I don't get attached to easily I don't expect commitment straight away I definitely don't put out straight away.. I don't know how much longer I cn take these people I love just walkout of my life ): Link to post Share on other sites
MooBear Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 I know this reply is a bit late but how are you going now? It sounds like he is just not ready for a serious relationship at the moment. If he is going to keep walking away, you have to let go of it for your own sanity. It will drive you mad. And you're 19 so you have plenty more dating years ahead of you. Don't waste time on someone who isn't willing to be settled with you. Find something to keep you busy, go do things with your friends. Let go of the idea in your head so you can move forward and be happy again x Link to post Share on other sites
morichu Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Just sounds like bad luck honestly, I actually had something similar happen to me around that age. Broke up with a girlfriend of a few months, found a girl soon after and then she decided after a few weeks she didn't want to date. Don't sweat it, it happens. On to the next one Link to post Share on other sites
oldshirt Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Not sure if you are still following this or not but if you aren't then there are probably 17.8 million other teenagers in the same boat. You didn't do anything wrong and nothing "happened." this is what teenagers do and this is how it goes. It will have many more times before things start to fall into place and people mature enough and develop enough self-wareness and communication skills that they are able to be aware of what is going on inside their heads (and in their pants) and are able to communicate those things to the people they are involved with. Those things come with age and maturity. Link to post Share on other sites
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