BeachBumGrrl0623 Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 Hello, well here's the story. My boyfriend and I have been going out for only a little bit and the other night we had all gotten drunk. I get upset about the lamest stuff when I'm drunk and his friend came out to talk to me after my boyfriend did. I could tell he was flirting with me because he was trying to get me to go to the store with him and he kept putting down my boyfriend (this was supposed to be his best friend too) I could tell he was a real jerk though. Well anyways I went into the other room to lay down with my boyfriend to go to sleep. My boyfriend was asleep next to me and I was almost also. Next thing I know, his best friend comes in and lays down next to me. I felt really uncomfortable especially when he tried massaging my neck and trying to go up my shirt. I threw his hand off me and told him to stop and he aplogized and then continued to do it. So I did the same thing again and finally he left. I didn't tell my boyfriend about it the next day because I was scared he would think I was trying to start **** between him and his best friend. Well later that night when my boyfriend called me we had a normal conversation then he asked me what him and his best friend did the night before. I told him exactly what happened and he was pissed. He doesn't like to talk about things when he's pissed so he'd call me later. I talked to him about it later and apologized I didn't do anything else to stop him. He said he's not a very trusting person especially since that happen and he doesn't know who to believe. I don't know the best friend's story. I told him to give me a chance to prove he can trust me and that I'm different and basically the truth. I don't get into many relationships because I'm cautious and picky and that I didn't want to lose him. He said he would talk to me the next day about it more. That would be today and I want to know any ways I can win back his trust. He said that girls have told him that in the past and he's always been burned. I'm not that kind of person, so I know I wouldn't do it to him. I want him to know I wouldn't hurt him. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
amanda25 Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 Why do you have to win back his trust in the first place, if YOU did nothing wrong?? That is just crazy!! Maybe you should confront his friend in front of him, to prove that you didn't do anything, that he did...And if he was his "best friend" he would never have done this to begin with..If I were you, I'd tell your man, ya wanna get all three of ya together so that he knows it wasn't you! Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
beachbumgrl0623 Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 Thanks for the advice. I'm going to suggest that to him if I talk to him again. Last I heard today was that he still wasn't sure. Link to post Share on other sites
Ms_Sweetness Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 I agree with Amanda, you should talk about it when the three of you are together. Are you sure that your boyfriend didn't put his friend up to that to test you? I just had to put it out there because I had a similar situation. Link to post Share on other sites
amanda25 Posted June 27, 2004 Share Posted June 27, 2004 Ms_Sweetness -thats funny that you said that, cuz It made me think as well..That could very well be the case too!! Guys (and us girls!LOL) are pretty sneaky sometimes when it comes to things like that.... Link to post Share on other sites
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