joystickd Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 How would you feel if the person man/woman were not fully open about their past? You meet someone and you get to know them and everything is going good. They are exactly what you are looking for in a partner. One day you are out and some people see the person you are with and reveal: if the person is a man they reveal he has been abusive to women in previous relationships. The person happened to be a relative of one of his ex. Ladies how would you feel about that revelation? if the person is a woman they reveal she has had a very promiscuous past. The person telling this had participated in a gangbang back a few years ago. Men how would you feel about this? Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted May 29, 2012 Share Posted May 29, 2012 Alarm bells would ring, but I'd need to see the abuse firsthand or at least signs that indicate an abusive personality. I'd also ask him about it and his responses would help me to form an opinion about whether or not it's an immediate dealbreaker. Link to post Share on other sites
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