smudge21 Posted May 30, 2012 Share Posted May 30, 2012 A bad break up brought me here, and the healing took way too long in my opinion, but you can't force these things. Now though, I'm after some more advice in a different area. Basically, I got very close to a friend of a friend at the weekend. We're both single and both wanted what happened, so no problems. Come the morning, we were back to being friends, with the odd innuendo every now and then, but nothing more. Few days on, I'm sat here unsure of what I want. I don't really know if there is anything there on her side, whether she cares one bit (we do get along, but just as friends currently). I'm also not really feeling anything other than desire/lust for her at this moment, but that said, she is my type and maybe there's a chance some thing could happen... something more. After my recent break up which hurt a lot, I'm also unsure I'm ready - not just for another relationship, but even to try again and face rejection. Plus, as we do get along, I wonder if it's best to keep it friendly, and see what happens. I really don't know if I should move things forward, back off, act like nothing happened, flirt more openly. Yeah, pretty much, no idea how to proceed with this one. Last thing I'd want to happen is to appear over eager and blow it, or act like I don't care and blow it. I guess it's that fine line. For info, she lives about 30 miles away, so not just round the corner, and we're currently not that close in that we talk all the time, so if I do start texting, phoning, whatever, it will seem pretty obvious. Thoughts and advice appreciated as always. Link to post Share on other sites
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