lifeschanges Posted May 30, 2012 Share Posted May 30, 2012 (edited) Ok... I'm about 2 months out of a 5 year relationship, I still do think about this women everyday and just the past week i started no contact, we no longer live in the same state as i have moved away... Ive really struggled with this breakup.. So to help ease the pain and keep my mind busy i started seeking friends because where i am i have only family, i meet this really cool chick, she has been divorced for a year now moved back to her home town and has not dated nor tried in the past year, we are very close to the same age 30/32. I have been telling her about how much i love this ex of mine and how hard it its blah blah she has been very comforting and helpful.. Ok so we have been txting for about a week then we talked on the phone for 2 hrs it was a great conversation and it felt good... so this went on for 2 weeks.. last weekend she suggested we meet for coffee as she dint really have any friends outside of work and i was cool with it, she said she would get a sitter for her kids and we could have coffee and hang out to start off our evening.. well later that day she said hey how bout i just cook you dinner and we hang out and watch a movie so again i said sure sounds good to me.. I show up at her place she has food all set out wine to drink and she is making me this crazy dinner i felt like a king with the treatment this girl was giving me... We had dinner then sat around drinking wine and laughing having a good time I'm starting to dig this chick, next thing i know its 1 am and she says you can sleep on my couch here is a blanket, we were both intoxicated or i know i was, i asked her for a phone charger for my phone as i need to set an alarm she said theres one next to her bed you can sleep in here if you want.. i was like ok she say what you cant keep your boundaries i said yea i think i can well we ended up having sex till 3 am it was crazy good...i woke up cuddled up next to her going wow we got up showered and had coffee i then left... ok sorry for the long detailed story but that happened last weekend, this week we haven't talked very much not like we were before our "date night" I have sent txt and she replies but no conversation like before, well last night she calls pretty late saying she cant sleep and has a headache and wanted to hear my voice as it is comforting and relaxing ( made me feel good) then again nothing for a day.. I am soft hearted guy and did not meet with her for sex i had not intended sleeping with her, i don't see a women as a piece of meat, but I'm really liking this girl, she is smoking hot and from talking it seems this way inside and out ( she could be ugly but a beautiful women on the inside looks are not everything but this girl has both..) So ladies, what do i do? I don't want to rush this as i am still struggling with my ex but this girl has caught my attention and id like to see where it goes, i don't want to push her away or be clingy, I like her but cant read her was this a FIB thing is she interested in me... Edited May 30, 2012 by lifeschanges Link to post Share on other sites
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