wicked_male Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 (edited) I have a younger women working for me once a week we got on very well she has been working with me just over a year. In the last 5 months we started to flirt caudle she would sit on my lap and even if I was leaning on a table I would put my arms around her waist and pull her in and we would talk I would kiss her on the cheek and hug or I would come from behind her and hug her some time kiss her on the neck. I have told her on a few occasions I give you too much attention and I should stop and she tells me she likes it and other time I have told her what am I to do with you her response is yes what are you to do. Last time I was with her all was good I dropped her off while she was in the car her BF rang and was abusive to her she was a little upset I spoke to her and parted. She calls me about 10 min later ringing to say hello and she hung up during the week she started to text me which was interesting On Thursday I spoke to her on the phone later that night she tried to call me I rang her no answer I tried to call her on Friday again no response I was concerned if something has happened. She turns up for work very reserved I asked her what’s wrong she tells me I do to much touching ok, so I left her alone later on in the day I asked her what the was the call all about she didn’t call me It must of been her BF I asked does he want to talk to me she was making excuses. Later in the lunch I was speaking to her again standing next to her plenty eye contact she tilts head expecting me to kiss her neck I moved my face in close she kissed me on the cheek I moved away and I told her you do my brain in I went back to work. She approaches me and offers to do the work I told it ok I do it by this time stand close our bodies touching she was holding my hand looking in each other’s eye. I took half a step back and she moved in again I asked again what’s the problem she told me I just want to be friends. I looked at her and told her do you think I am just interested in having sex with her I told her its not on the top of my list. I asked her are you scared of me she responded with yes I asked WHY she I don’t know...I moved away from her thinking WTF. She is 20 I am 40 So what I am asking can some one can give me insight as to why would she be scared ???? Edited June 8, 2012 by wicked_male Link to post Share on other sites
amymurphy123 Posted June 8, 2012 Share Posted June 8, 2012 I think she is interested in you, but the fact that she has a boyfriend and that you are her boss are both in the way. You say that her boyfriend was abusive? It also seems that he may know about your "close relationship'. he may be abusive towards her because of how you two are together and she is scared of him and so wants to keep her distance from you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wicked_male Posted June 14, 2012 Author Share Posted June 14, 2012 Hi and thanks for the reply I have spoken to her since and explained to her it was never about sleeping with her, I told her you cause major conflict with in me as I don't get involved with any one under 30 as for HOW we got to here I don't even know. I asked her again why would you be scared she told me she wasn't ahh you have to luv it logic. There is chemistry between us I have taken a few steps back she still comes looking for my attention and flirts. Again thanks for your reply.. Link to post Share on other sites
nessaaa Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 I wish an older man would kiss my neck sigh Link to post Share on other sites
nessaaa Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 I think she just enjoys your attention. prob exciting and different for her seeing that you're older. Link to post Share on other sites
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