How to get over husbands bachelor party that occured 10 months ago?

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Whoa that's gross- these chicks were getting paid to give oral sex to each other? What's the difference between that and prostitution? Sex for money is illegal outside of Nevada. :-P

 

 

Uhhhhhhhhhhh, no it isn't.

 

Vast numbers of people are legally paid to have sex in areas heavily concentrated in southern California and Florida, among other places.

[standtall]

I didn't tell you what your opinion should be.

 

This thread is about the OP's situation, and all you've done is simply a giant threadjack, talking about the bachelor parties you went to, and denying the reality of the OP's situation.

 

Your 3:18 pm post was the giant thread jack. And yes, you told how my opinion should be formed. I quoted it.

 

Chrissy, my experiences are much more credible and in the majority than your assumptions about bachelor parties.

 

My advice to the OP was not to overreact and make assumptions and I will not retract it no matter how much you two attempt to bully me out of it.

[CarboniteCammy]

Sincereonline, I'm glad you know that. ;-) Thanks for correcting me. As I've never engaged in prostitution, I made an assumption based on a show I saw once about the Bunny Ranch in Nevada.

 

Regardless, it's still gross, and it's still pretty much prosititution. I realize that probably there are more liberal people out there who probably think I'm a fuddy duddy. And frankly, I'm fine with being that way.

 

Sometimes I wonder how people date strippers, male or female. I guess maybe because it's something Personally couldn't do it. I can't imagine my husband saying to me, "Hey babe, what'd you do today?"

 

And me being all casual and saying, "Well, me and Heaven ate each other out at some random guys house in hopes of getting more tips, and I did it while sitting on another guy's chest. It was awesome. How was your day, babe?"

 

I realize that's completely off topic and I apologize. Just random thoughts.

[chrissylee]

Your 3:18 pm post was the giant thread jack. And yes, you told how my opinion should be formed. I quoted it.

 

Chrissy, my experiences are much more credible and in the majority than your assumptions about bachelor parties.

 

My advice to the OP was not to overreact and make assumptions and I will not retract it no matter how much you two attempt to bully me out of it.

 

I think I will trust friends/coworkers who have been to one and aren't trying to prove some point by claiming bachelor parties are wholesome entertainment. The fact that strippers are there alone makes it unacceptable in my opinon so nothing you say will make me think it is ok for a soon to be married man to have one.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Sincereonline, I'm glad you know that. ;-) Thanks for correcting me. As I've never engaged in prostitution, I made an assumption based on a show I saw once about the Bunny Ranch in Nevada.

 

Regardless, it's still gross, and it's still pretty much prosititution.

 

 

 

Your thoughts are all over the place... one minute you're talking about mere "sex for money" ... and the next minute you're talking about prostitution.

 

I'm just saying that probably not a day goes by on which struggling young actress wanna-bes aren't paid (money) to have sex in California with it all being legal. Hilariously, what is now illegal is their doing so without wearing condoms. (LOL - is nothing sacred?)

[Plan 9 from OS]

I admit that I did not read this thread in its entirety, but IMO, I don't thin it should be a deal breaker for any young husbands who are out supporting their friend at a bachelor party. Sure, it may not be the most ideal situation, but I think going to a strip club for a friend's bachelor party is a different situation from the husband stopping by one after work with the friends. I think there should be legitimate boundaries that should not be crossed. Banging a stripper crosses the line. Receiving or giving oral should be across the line along with inappropriate touching. Watching can't be helped. Again, I'm basing this on a bachelor party only. I would not think it would be acceptable for a husband to regularly go to a strip club just because.