djjd9199 Posted June 9, 2012 Share Posted June 9, 2012 I,ve been with what I thought was a great woman for almost 4 years now. I have always picked up the bill for what ever we have done, ie dinners 2 vacations out of state. She has been living with me now for just about one year. I have never asked her to help out with expenses. She does buy food and certain other household needs. twice this year now she has taken a trip with her daughter who is 11 years old on a dive group trip. The first was to Cozamel and she tells me about this trip 5 days before she goes on it,. and as of right now she is on the second dive trip to the Florida Keys in which she left this past Friday and she informed me of it this past Wednesday. She has had eye surgery in which she tells me about it just a few days before and also a face lift in which she tells me about the day before she has it only she didnt tell me that it was a face lift. Am I just being used? Is she just stingy? Nobody could be this old fashioned. Also she has told her daughter not to mention the trips to me, WTF, any thought? I sure could use them. I have run this buy my closest friends but I would like an unbiased opinion here, THANKS Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted June 9, 2012 Share Posted June 9, 2012 If you want her to pay then ask her to. If I had someone covering for me and felt no obligation to pay myself I'd surely use my money for fun as well. Why not have a discussion about finances with her? Link to post Share on other sites
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