WonderKid Posted June 9, 2012 Share Posted June 9, 2012 I met this woman off a social forum I used to go to waaay back and I started to check in just to see how thing's changed. I never thought anything of it when I friended her at all. But all it took was for me to comment on one of her pics and we hit it off immediately. We have very similar interests in music, philosophies and point of views. The most thing we have in common is love for art. We don't have exactly everything in common, but the things we do have in common really have a big effect. She stays in Florida. I like everything about her and she is very sweet. We talked on AIM for hours! Like 13 hours. Showing music, presenting our art works and everything. Its just messed up when the exact person you connect with lives miles and miles away. It's like reaching for a star you can't get. No matter how pretty it is; its up there and you're down here. She treats me with more respect than women I've actually been with. One of my goals is to meet her one day because she's a very great person. Just sucks she's so far away. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyabstrused Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 Totally know what you mean. I feel like this quite often lately. Weird how life works sometimes. It's like, there's gotta be some kind of challenge to the things you want. I hope you'll get to meet her soon though, that would be really nice. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WonderKid Posted June 10, 2012 Author Share Posted June 10, 2012 I really want to make that happen someday. It's just surreal. Like that exact person out there for you but they are like 100s of miles away! Lol We laugh about it all the time. But that's just the way it is. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyabstrused Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Yup, that's just how life is. Some people have it easier than others. Maybe it's just pure luck. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Everyone is just a plane ticket away. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 I really want to make that happen someday. It's just surreal. Like that exact person out there for you but they are like 100s of miles away! Lol We laugh about it all the time. But that's just the way it is. 100s of miles is nothing! My guy and I are 12,000 miles apart - actually it's just reduced to 10,500 as he's moved from NZ to Australia If it's the right person it doesn't matter where they are - as FitChick says, these days we have flying buses . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted June 12, 2012 Share Posted June 12, 2012 I really want to make that happen someday. It's just surreal. Like that exact person out there for you but they are like 100s of miles away! Yes, a few hundred isn't much for the right person. Concentrate on the value of the relationship rather than the distance. But... if you haven't met in person yet, you're basically indulging a fantasy. Don't become too invested in the fantasy––it's really not healthy. Go see her immediately! If there is chemistry and it's as great as it seems, which it could very well be, then you've got yourself a wonderful new relationship, in reality. I can't emphasize the importance of this enough. Just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts