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Giving up online dating in foreign land


luckyshot

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Hi.. Been online searching for dates. But no luck so far. I guess it's the language barrier I'm facing. I have learnt the language for 6 years now and am still limited in conversation. The only 'fluent' part of the language i am comfortable with is probably professionally related. (I clerk my patients for my case histories using their native language, and even that sometimes has difficulties in comprehension.)

 

Well, I am east Asian and I admit that caucasian features attract me a lot, their facial features, eyes in particular, overall complexion. The sad part is i hardly get any replies. There are probably many reasons i believe - like looks, charm, witty with words, sense of humour and so forth.. and not to mention the language barrier. looking for an online english speaking date here is like searching a needle in haystack.

 

Well.. I guess I'll stop for now, complete my degree this year and consider moving to an English speaking country in the near future. Eventhough I am not that extroverted leader of the pack type, I'm comfortable with who i am, being cordial and intimate with people I am interested in genuinely. As for the 'no experience with women', I probably put it aside for now and trade some beer for disappointment lol, though i consider myself a diamond in the rough. i know a lot of users here might encounter dating difficulties, but at least to some, you are all not that bad compared to me. So do treasure your experiences, and hopefully best of luck and love. I'm 23 by the way LOL.

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