Is she with someone else or am i paranoid...pt2

[gateway865]

Ok, So after spending more time with my girlfriend alot has happened in a short period of time ( i mean a hell lot of ****.. sorry for my language ) . I will post a link to my past post here( http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/cheating-flirting-jealousy/326588-she-someone-else-am-i-paranoid )

 

Well anyway if anyone looked at the past post or went to it from this message you pretty much get the background story.

 

To start this off i kept spending time with her and giving her the benefit of the doubt on everything i was feeling before. ( i am started now to think that was a big mistake ) One night she sent me a sweet text message saying that your are like a real father figure to my son, none of my other guy friends treat him how you treat him. I know it sounds really sweet so i told her i can't wait to see you when im off ( which was in a few days ). Anyway later on that night around 4 a.m. i get a message from her phone telling me that i won't be spending time with her and that i am no father to the baby. ( Now just so everyone knows the real baby father is in jail..i know i picked one hell of a girl right lol...) So after i see that i call her phone.. of course i get no answer and this random number messages my phone telling me to leave him and his future wife alone( I will call this person X for now ). ( a bit of more info that she started wearing rings on her wedding finger that she said was from her dead father..sounds like bs to me too but whatever i bought it ) Then the person X sends me a picture of her and the baby sleeping in a bed and they proceed to say that it is their bed.

 

So Me and person X talk for a while about how much time we spend with my so called gf. Well i eventually say maybe there is more to the story that i don't know..All of her new excuses to why she can't be on the phone ( the best one is she was walking outside at 12 am and can't talk because her phone battery is low and she will message me later...keep in mind she stopped messaging me around 7 pm..why wait to 12 to tell me she can't text?? and if your out that late where is the baby..according to her she has no family or help with the child or anyone to ever watch him ) Sorry had to put that in so you know what my thought process was at the time. Well i show person X pictures of me and her together and times when she been spending the night in my bed. So i say that i won't message her again and leave her alone.

 

 

Well around 11 am i send her a message of the picture person X sent me, and she says that it was her roommate that took the picture. Then she says she is going to shower and will message me back after. Now the person X number message me saying that it was all a joke to see if i was a good guy for her..I know.. it was probably her on their phone but whatever i bought it.

 

 

After that, i will speed up the process about a week and things seem to be legit, never got a message from that number again and things were all gravy. Then person X calls me and says i thought we had an understand that you would stop seeing my wife/gf. So after a long talk with person X i decided to break it off with the girl for good. When i confront her about this she says that he is a roommate and wants to break us up because she broke up X and his gf for X cheating on her. I clearly now that i shouldn't of believed any of this but as a fool as i am.. i went along.

 

Then i talk more and more to person X, without the gf knowledge to see what is going on.. the sad thing is that after talking with person X his side of what is going on matches up alot better than what my gf has been telling me. ( or is it in my head and i wanted it to match up to prove she is doing wrong..im not sure..but there is more. )

 

Anyway After a week about that i decided to give her another chance after she keeps telling me that its not what it seems to be. Then one night i get a picture from her phone saying im going to kill your gf and her damn baby ( picture was of her crying and a knife to her throat ) now at this time i am too far away to drive there ( it takes about 30 mins to get there but i was an hour away because giving my sister a ride home from work ) now this is at 10 pm at night, so i call the police.. and the police get there and tell me that the story seems legit and person X who was suppose to be just a good friend and roommate pulled a knife on her.. bad i know. but she was ok and i think she pressed charges.. not sure if she did or didn't

 

Keep in mind we are still dating while this is occuring, and the next day after that i decided to look at the guys profile page on facebook ( she has him as a friend and his page isn't private ) and i see her write sorry on his page.. Right now i am like WTF??!?! your sorry!?!?! what is there to be sorry for.. they pulled a damn knife on you and threatened to kill you..

 

She claims it was an accident and she was trying to post somewhere else ( she does everything from her phone.. she has not computer ) Well anyway just recently like last night she said she was feeling sick and going to the hospital. Its like 1 am, so i decided that i will surprise her and bring her flowers and a card to wish her better. ( now it was legit..she was at the hospital ) at 2 am i get close to the hospital and she text me that she went home and she was going to go to sleep ( i didn't see the text ) but i got to hospital and she not there.. so i drive to her home its like 2:30 am when i get there.. i call her phone, and text at least 6 times.. no answer so i figure maybe she sleep..so i leave the flowers and card in a bush for her and tell her to look there for a present.

 

 

well when i am almost home i get a call from her at 3:15 am....me i am thinking oh she get my flowers but she is crying saying that person X attacked her again and the baby might be hurt ( now i am mad and wondering how she get around him ) i go pick her up and take her to the hospital and she tells me that she was going home but person X mother had some of her bottles for the baby and she should come and get them ( now it is like 2 something in the morning and going to get some damn bottles at some guys house..wtf..really?? ) well anyway she says that she must of had her phone on vibrate and she never heard my calls or texts ( i called 5 damn times..and she wasn't sleep.. so i was being ignored in my opinion but whatever )

 

Well anyway the rings on her finger that she says were her fathers were no gone, but my ring i gave her she still had and my necklace ( she claims she never took them off except for that night so she didn't lose any jewelry ) but now she puts on all the jewelry and says she lost her father rings the night of the attack ( now keep in mind she told me she didn't wear any that night and she says she did the very next day ) Caught her in a lie..will confront her about it when I see her thursday... but out of all that happened i was still with her the whole time.. we were in a relationship..

 

She gave me her email address and a password to pay for her phone bill since it was about to be shut off.. but it turns out that is the email and password to her facebook ( i know shame on me for trying it out on facebook ) Well i been trying very hard to believe her but **** just don't match up ( sorry for the bad language ) well i go through her facebook and she is talking to some guy ( another guy.. not even person X ) and saying that how she misses him and how she wants to be in his arms again ( they guy is saying some pretty sexual things to her and she not stopping and saying she has a bf ) anyway the guy asked her how you been.. she said not good, guy ask what happened and she says her bf attacked her with a knife.. and now she is single ( this is during the time we are suppose to be together ) and she doesn't know i read this.. and i am thinking of confronting her about it when i see her as well

 

I apologize this is so long, but wanted to update on everything that has been going on...And for the people who said it was all in my head..yeah..is it still in my head, or could she be possibly telling the truth

 

 

I know that going through a person facebook is kind of wrong...but she goes through my phone all the time ( it really doesn't bother me because i have nothing to hide, can have my facebook passwords as well ) anyway sorry its so long again.. just wanted more opinions on what to do.. i really do like this girl..but i feel like i am getting played.. and the main problem isn't even came up yet ( with original baby father getting out of jail in august )