communication ceased

[jelly]

My wife and I have been separated over seven months. We remained in contact during the past six and a half months, during which time we were still sleeping with each other. I discovered that she was living with another man who was married also and still sleep with his wife. I tried to tell her what I know but that made things worst Prior to this she will tell me it is not about a man and she will also lie to me about living with anyone. The last time I ask her if she will consider the marriage and she said she will think about it-It appears that the man she is living with found out that we are talking or continue to see each other- My wife has not call me for two weeks now this is unusual.

 

It is my belief that she has entrap herself, and needed support when she had separated from me she turned to this man who was also separated from his wife. He is the opposite of me calm nature, family oriented and intelligent man. However my wife and him share a common personality they are both hasty, arrogant and selfish.

 

I am trying different method of trying to win my wife back. given the latest development that include lack of communication I don't know what to do.

[honey2005]

It doesn't seem very safe for your wife to be sleeping with another man who is seperated from his wife...I mean, if he is sleeping with her, who's to say he's not sleeping with other people. And then you go and sleep with her, STD's could be spread between you and your wife easily. Even if she does start to communicate with you again, I would advise not sleeping with her while she's still sleeping with the other man. Besides, why let her have her cake and eat it, too? She gets to sleep with you AND the other man? That doesn't seem fair. No contact seems like the best thing for now, but you can't help but be a little bit worried about her if you haven't heard from her in 2 weeks.