me so no-one gets hurt!!!!!

[marilla]

thanks again for the good advice!!!!

[marilla]

please help me guys. It seems that he is really confused between me and my friend. She is in the dark about what is going on between us but she is trying to make him jealous with other men there and he runs.

on friday i looked at him a few times-he turns his chair

he came to sit with me but pretending to be doing some work on his pc so it doesn't look he is sitting with me

i tried talking to him and he was answering with one word sentences.

Then i got so angry i left the work place for a few hours.

AFter i came back he was staring and buzzing around me like a bee again.

I don't know if this means that he chose my friend and he is buzzing around to make me feel better.

What happened to me is that i have become passive. i just sit and stare and watch and can't react anymore. I can't react to all these-it got too much. We have 4 days left to work together and then we are done. Wondering what will happen in the next few days. It has turned into a nightmare. Couldn't sleep at all last night.

I am so afraid of being rejected a 4th time!!!! i get this sickening feeling in my stomach. And i still have feelings for him. Not sure what he is doing or thinking or feeling. I understand she is a nice woman and a good chance for him-he doesn't want to loose. I am risky since we had a bad past. But still i don't get his behavior. And it hurts so much to be given hopes for one year only to be rejected at the very end.

Please i am scared going in tomorrow....i wasn't as scared during my operations and i am scared now.

[steelgator]

Maybe since he's shy and you are just talking to him like a normal person would, he has doubts. Try flirting and see if it makes him smile, or if he gets nervous. If he does either it means he still has feelings. But your story has given me true hope, you sound like my ex. She is hurt from me after i dumped and came back to her. She is away at college and i won't be back there until august. She said she just wants to be friends when i get back and its got me all scared because shes friends with lots of her exes and im afraid she just wants to be platonic friends and nothing more. I've been begging and begging to get back together but she won't budge. She just wants to be friends. I think she wants to give me another chance but very slowly. And now she doesn't want to talk to me because I keep begging her so I'm scared to do anything and Idk if she'll ever reach out to me.