AllieKat Posted June 14, 2012 Share Posted June 14, 2012 Just wondering if anyone else has gone through weeks of having spouse not talk to them and overcome it and saved married? Just looking for some hope! Husband and i barely speak and he says he wants divorce because I lied to him. Link to post Share on other sites
M30USA Posted June 14, 2012 Share Posted June 14, 2012 Haven't spoken to my STBXW if 4 months, other than business-like texts regarding our children. I was assaulted and she got arrested. She wants me to accept accountability for my role in her assaulting me (even though she denied the assault in court). Until I admit my fault, there won't be reconciliation. If a lie is your worst problem you are lucky. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted June 14, 2012 Share Posted June 14, 2012 I've glanced very, very briefly at the other threads you've started. It SOUNDS like this totally happened out of the blue, from a fight where you made a comment about being "sick of the marriage"...and then all of a sudden this all blows up into him not talking to you, etc... Like in the space of a day... Non sequiter. He didn't change that fast...something has changed in his life to lead to this. I'm gonna ask the blunt question...what are the odds of someone else being a factor? I saw where you'd mentioned changed pw's, etc... SOMETHING caused him to suddenly change. Either he's been building up resentment against you for a long, long time without venting it, or something new has been added to the equation. Why do you think he's doing what he's doing? Link to post Share on other sites
M30USA Posted June 14, 2012 Share Posted June 14, 2012 My wife also suspected me of cheating on her. I think her and her family were shocked because I changed so suddenly. The previous poster was right: sometimes years of frustration can cause a snap that only appears sudden. In my case it was years of being bossed around by her and never being allowed to live how I want. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AllieKat Posted June 14, 2012 Author Share Posted June 14, 2012 I've glanced very, very briefly at the other threads you've started. It SOUNDS like this totally happened out of the blue, from a fight where you made a comment about being "sick of the marriage"...and then all of a sudden this all blows up into him not talking to you, etc... Like in the space of a day... Non sequiter. He didn't change that fast...something has changed in his life to lead to this. I'm gonna ask the blunt question...what are the odds of someone else being a factor? I saw where you'd mentioned changed pw's, etc... SOMETHING caused him to suddenly change. Either he's been building up resentment against you for a long, long time without venting it, or something new has been added to the equation.H Why do you think he's doing what he's doing? We made up after that fight that I said im sick of this marriage but then i threw myself into lying about going to dr went pregnant, and it set him off again!! I honestly dont think hes cheating but what do i know? I have no proof no weird numbers on cell no spending money so i dunno Link to post Share on other sites
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