TigerCub Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 yes, what happened was i asked for a quickie blowjob cause i had no condom, and she offered me full bareback quickie if i pay her the hourly rate. she didn't even see me yet except through a window from the motel when i was walking out of my car. for sure i'm getting tested after 3 weeks to make sure everything shows up on the test. but listen. she's not just going to recklessly offer bareback to everyone, will she? after some searching i think i found some posts saying she has a kid. she's only 20 years old. she's young and pretty. would she really just **** up her life like that? it's a 100% guarantee she'd **** up her body quick if she just offers BB to anyone willing to pay. and she has so much to lose to do something so dumb.. By accepting bb from a hooker you could have put your life/health at risk - so you too had too much to lose, but you still did what was dumb. bah. i have some social anxiety about these situations. i should call her and try to fish some answers out of her, but i'd feel so nervous. hehe, you're clearly trying to find excuses to get talk to her or see her again. She doesn't owe you anything. She offered you something, you made a choice to accept it, that's pretty much it. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 Wait you paid her more money to have bareback? Then my friend you have been completely duped. Granted, all I know about the sex worker business comes from Tv and movies, but I always did think that customers would pay extra for things like bare backing it? That's not how it really is? Link to post Share on other sites
casey1989 Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 Granted, all I know about the sex worker business comes from Tv and movies, but I always did think that customers would pay extra for things like bare backing it? That's not how it really is? Girls that offer bareback charge a lot more for it. Some charge extra for anal or oral without, it's discretionary and a personal decision. What I meant by duped was that she said to him that she didn't do it very often. Obviously not the case if she's charging more for it. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 Girls that offer bareback charge a lot more for it. Some charge extra for anal or oral without, it's discretionary and a personal decision. What I meant by duped was that she said to him that she didn't do it very often. Obviously not the case if she's charging more for it. Oh I completely agree with that. Thanks for clearing my question up, cuz I totally expected the things you listed to be done for extra $, so I got confused. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Author socrushed Posted June 15, 2012 Author Share Posted June 15, 2012 well, here's what happened. i brought $140 dollars for an hour with her. she told me she didn't have a condom. i drove around to look for a place to buy a condom for around 15min, then i said **** it i don't wanna buy a condom it's too embarassing. so she called me a lot during this time, probably annoyed that i was wasting her time by taking so long. i told her forget it i'll just get a quickie for $40 for 15min. at this point she was probably annoyed and offered me bareback because she really wanted all my money. so it's possible that she was telling the truth. got greedy, spur of the moment. i sent a message to the reviewers and one of them was shocked that she did bbfs and claimed he would never see her again. that was optimistic Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted June 15, 2012 Share Posted June 15, 2012 "She looked healthy..." Oh my god...I feel like I'm in 8th grade watching a sex ed video. The way a person's "genitals" "look" is no indication of their sexual health. Get over this attachment thing STAT. By any means necessary. She is a hooker. She does not want to date you. Much less do you want to date a hooker. Give him some slack FFS, he's completely sexually inexperienced. He hasn't had the good fortune that yourself and 99% of the rest of the population has had. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted June 16, 2012 Share Posted June 16, 2012 I just got back. I'll spare the details. Except that we went bareback and I didn't have a good time because the head of my penis was too sensitive(uncircumcised and i don't have sex so the head is hyper sensitive) so everything I did with her just hurt and I couldn't get off. Well, I would say the next step for you should be going down to the clinic to get tested -- for everything! Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 16, 2012 Share Posted June 16, 2012 well, here's what happened. i brought $140 dollars for an hour with her. she told me she didn't have a condom. i drove around to look for a place to buy a condom for around 15min, then i said **** it i don't wanna buy a condom it's too embarassing. so she called me a lot during this time, probably annoyed that i was wasting her time by taking so long. i told her forget it i'll just get a quickie for $40 for 15min. at this point she was probably annoyed and offered me bareback because she really wanted all my money. so it's possible that she was telling the truth. got greedy, spur of the moment. i sent a message to the reviewers and one of them was shocked that she did bbfs and claimed he would never see her again. that was optimistic What kind of hooker doesn't bring her own condoms?! Can you imagine hiring a contractor and he asks to borrow your hammer? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted June 16, 2012 Share Posted June 16, 2012 What kind of hooker doesn't bring her own condoms?! Can you imagine hiring a contractor and he asks to borrow your hammer? I really agree with this. Extremely worrisome IMO... Link to post Share on other sites
Author socrushed Posted June 16, 2012 Author Share Posted June 16, 2012 it was early in the morning.. maybe she just realized she ran out and didn't get a chance to buy more yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted June 17, 2012 Share Posted June 17, 2012 (edited) I just got back. I'll spare the details. Except that we went bareback and I didn't have a good time because the head of my penis was too sensitive(uncircumcised and i don't have sex so the head is hyper sensitive) so everything I did with her just hurt and I couldn't get off. I've always had problems with depression and anxiety. Now I feel even more depressed, because of my terrible performance and because of how I felt so anxious during the sex. Like i was so self conscious of how bad I was at sex and I was afraid she was pressuring/judging me. Cause I couldn't get off and went past the time limit. Now I feel so embarassed and ashamed. I'm so scared that somebody will find out that I saw a prostitute. I think I would just die if that happened. I was already soooo embarassed when the ****ing cleaning maid at the motel came in and she opened the door for her while totally naked as I was about to leave, and then there was money on the bed as I walked out and tried not to make eye contact. jesus that's cringe worthy. am i just going to be a total loser forever? do i have a chance to recover from this? Has it ever occured to you to keep the foreskin on top of the head and use a condom to decrease sensitivity and have her finish you at the end with a HJ/BJ if you feel too little ? Do you know that uncut guys generally have lower chanes to contract STD's than cut guys ? It's because the head hardens and no fluids remain for a long time between the foreskin and the head. I'll repeat what others probably already told you. This is all in your head, your virginity that is. However, the fact that you took the maid interaction so hard, the condom buying, and that this experience depresses you ... why ? Are you emotionally hypersensitive ? It's all in your head, are you worried that you won't last long when you do it for the first time with a girl you are in a relationship with ? When that happened to me [24 when i lost mine], i just said that the little guy liked her a bit too much for his own good. PS: What somedude said crossed my mind too, it's kinda stupid to not bring her own condoms. And what are these reviewers you speak off ? Edited June 17, 2012 by Radu Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 17, 2012 Share Posted June 17, 2012 I just got back. I'll spare the details. Except that we went bareback and I didn't have a good time because the head of my penis was too sensitive(uncircumcised and i don't have sex so the head is hyper sensitive) so everything I did with her just hurt and I couldn't get off. I've always had problems with depression and anxiety. Now I feel even more depressed, because of my terrible performance and because of how I felt so anxious during the sex. Like i was so self conscious of how bad I was at sex and I was afraid she was pressuring/judging me. Cause I couldn't get off and went past the time limit. Now I feel so embarassed and ashamed. I'm so scared that somebody will find out that I saw a prostitute. I think I would just die if that happened. I was already soooo embarassed when the ****ing cleaning maid at the motel came in and she opened the door for her while totally naked as I was about to leave, and then there was money on the bed as I walked out and tried not to make eye contact. jesus that's cringe worthy. am i just going to be a total loser forever? do i have a chance to recover from this? A hooker didn't make you wear a condom? Link to post Share on other sites
goldengirl11 Posted June 17, 2012 Share Posted June 17, 2012 Is bareback the same as anal? Link to post Share on other sites
lovinglife21 Posted June 18, 2012 Share Posted June 18, 2012 Wow I can't believe this attitude, if a guy I was dating told me he was a virgin it would make no difference to me! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 18, 2012 Share Posted June 18, 2012 Wow I can't believe this attitude, if a guy I was dating told me he was a virgin it would make no difference to me! Wouldn't it be fun to be a guys first and teach him stuff, grow together in bed. It is what it is and that's no big deal! Link to post Share on other sites
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