JamesMay Posted June 14, 2012 Share Posted June 14, 2012 Hi everyone, It has been quite a while since I posted here. To make a very long story slightly shorter: I was in a relationship with a girl since I was 16. I knew her since my childhood (our parents were friends), we travelled around together, her sister was a very good friend, not to mention all the mutual friends... it was very intense and lasted until I was 21. After a mutual break-up and several attempts towards reconciliation from my part and very emotional refusals from hers, I decided to move on. Even though a lot of people (including her sister) were guessing we would end up together again eventually and I was still in a mess. We were still seeing eachother on a regular basis, even after I told her I had slept with her sisters friend. This was about a year and a half after our breakup. Soon after that she first engaged in a relationship with my business partner (after which the business obviously broke up) and later with one of my most trusted friends, who she is still dating now for all I know. It split up a large part of my social circle and put me in a very humiliating position. I felt betrayed by too many people and it came to the point that I left town, took a break from my masters degree and moved to another country to work. After more than half a year I am considering moving back to finish the degree and settle scores after the summer. I have broken off all contact with her, her sister and my former good friend, after giving them a very firm opinion on the matter and calling them 'socially disturbed'. I know a lot of people disapproved of their strange romance, some rather outspoken, and got a lot of support from close friends and family. Is it a good idea to go back or should I look for other opportunities? If I do go back, what would be the most honourable and assertive way to reappear? Keep in mind this is a small town with a lot of gossip. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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