moimeme Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 you can't judge people on the way that they look. otherwise i would have missed out on the love of my life. It's not like people can choose their looks - you can modify, but only so much. And it certainly isn't the case that inner beauty is always reflected on the outside; in fact sometimes almost the opposite. So to pass someone by because you initially don't feel 'chemistry' can be real, real foolish - as you figured out! I'm always delighted to hear happy stories like yours Link to post Share on other sites
Fritz Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 Originally posted by moimeme Try being a hairy guy these days. Originally posted by CurlyIam If you were in Frnace, women would jump all over you! Here most guys don't have much hair! As a matter of fact, I'm pretty sure once they hit their 40's they're BOLD! Hmm, perhaps a trip to France is in order... Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 I still like tiny girls. I have been spending some time lately with someone who is 5’ tall and 95 pounds. The last person I dated was 5’7” and 110 pounds. So long as the person is healthy, I do not see anything wrong with it. I suppose that I am attracted most to very slender, very petite figures. Of course, I am speaking only of weight/frame here. As for hair... I still do not like being a hairy guy. My chest hair is fine, but I wish it was not on my tummy, or arms, or legs, or even my cute little butt. Fortunately my back is not bad I would not, however, trade my beard for anything. I am quite fond of my facial hair. Link to post Share on other sites
LatsyrcSC Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 I've never been hit on more in my life then right now. I just recently went from a size 18 to a size 12/14, and it seems like I get more looks and get asked out more at this size then when I was a size 18. And see my goal was 135, but why even strive for that, if the guys seem to like me the way I am now? I feel confident in the way I look. I look great in my cloths. I'm very curvy which I know a lot of men like. I don't want to be 135 anymore. It looks unhealthy. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 I myself prefer a girl with a little meat to her body, not too much, but I definitely want to hold her and be able to feel her instead of wrapping my arms around her body three times over. I don't like the really really skinny types. They're okay to look at but to actually be with, I'll take a healthy girl over that any day. Link to post Share on other sites
einahpets Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 just because someone is thin, does not mean they are unhealthy. just like someone who is "plus size, husky" what have you, can be healthy too. how much you weigh does not always reflect how healthy you are. i eat like a horse, exercise (well a little yoga), and am in perfect health - and i weigh 117lbs at 5'6. i don't diet or exercise excessively to maintain my weight, that is how i naturally am. i have been that way since i was a teenager. i just have a good metabolism. i am sure one day it will slow down and the lbs will start to add up, and i will welcome them. i could use some more curves, but i love my body just the way it is. just because someone is thin does not necessarily mean they are in anything but good health. people are just built different. why don't people understand that we are not all meant to be the same size? should we all have the same haircolor too? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 Who's saying you're all meant to be the same size? There are naturally skinny women whose body type works for them, and there are UNnaturally skinny women, women who starve themselves, with their bones poking out of their skin, and that's nasty to me. Link to post Share on other sites
einahpets Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 i don't think bones are attractive either. i am just saying that this is it seems society has decided. when i look at the magazine rack while i am in line at the grocery store half the magazines have "so and so is now anorexic" and "who has the most disgusting beach body" picturing 'overweight' people. every other article in female magazines is how to loose weight while featured in between avertisments of extremely thin women. i think it makes a lot of people pissed that they feel pressured to look like that (which they shouldn't) and it makes them lash out at thin people w/the nasty comments i have been hearing my entire life. some mags are featuring 'plus size women'. but instead of featuring a broad range of women throughout the entire mag it is still mostly thin women. and instead of having articles on accepting your weight or being healthy no matter what your size, they still have a ridiculous amount of weight loss articles. i am happy to see all types of women in mags, i feel if we can accept women of all sizes, people can accept me for my natural thin body, and not something i strive for due to vanity. even friends make jokes about how thin i am, that would not fly if i were making fun of the lbs they pack (which i would never do). sorry i know men go through this too, it just seems as if this forum has been directed to women. Link to post Share on other sites
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