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ok so i' currently stuck between two options an i could seriously do with some help on making a decision :(

 

cut the long story short, my ex is struggling with his finances since we split and i moved out of the flat, the last couple of months (we still keep in contact) he refused to tell me just how bad it's gotten, i understand it's none of my business but i still care for him, an i know he can't hack the stressed as debt is now starting to pile up.

 

now what i'm stuck on is the fact my name still remains on his electricity account, now i have contacted the service provider and they refused to take my name off the account without my ex's consent, despite me telling them i havn't lived there for nearly 9 months now.

 

my ex now won't cooperate and won't sign a joint letter to say we both agree to the removal of my name off the account, it's not that he's trying to p**s me off or anything just now whenever i bring it up he refuses to talk about anything that has anything to do with money.

 

as far as i know, his electricity bill has not been paid for atleast 5 months (that i know of) so i believe this is the reason the provider will not take my name off the account.

 

i find this really unfair as at any moment i can be dragged into this.

 

i recently sent 3 e-mails to the energy supplier stating the situtation etc but no response.

 

i still love my ex an seriously want to try an get him help as we're both only young and i don't want his financial problems getting out of hand an it's as if he's trying to ignore it, he's never asked me for money etc so he's not using me.

 

he's now just straight out ignoring me when i try an get this matter sorted out, i'm scared to get intouch with the energy supplier to take things further as im worried it will get him into more trouble an i will also get dragged into this mess.

 

so what do i do?

 

he won't cooperate so do i just fone them and try an get this resolved despite the consequences for both of us or do i leave it?

 

i just don't want him getting into anymore trouble as it's not his fault he's having problems with money, he works hard an all his wages are gone on bills the second he gets paid but some bills he can't pay but he won't do anything about it.

 

i'm just stuck cos i care too much to make his situation worse but it's effecting me an d i dont want to be liable to pay anything thats owed when i don't even live there.

 

i'm stuck :(

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