Mom2Many30 Posted June 18, 2012 Share Posted June 18, 2012 I write this out once, was pretty long, so I'm giving the shortened version. If you want further details to help me figure this out, I'll answer all questions. The gist of it, my bfs ex is a typical "entitled woman" who feels she had a couple of kids, what more should she have to do. The latest issue, she was just booted from a 2 year relationship, and immediately starts trying to proposition my bf. I politely told her to not disrespect our relationship, she doesn't need comfort and support from him when shes been nothing but bitter and hateful, but left all alone wants to play nice. She claimed she does t want him, but yet send texts saying its not just about the kids, she wants to talk about them. He tells her no, convo is strictly about kids, to not butt in his relationship, that history will not repeat itself. We go get the kids today for fathers day and find out their 4 year old is taking depakote, clonodine, and risperdal(an antipsychotic!!) claiming he's unmanageable and wild. He's seemed like a normal 4 year old to us when we had him before all these meds so wth? So she hands us a bag of pills, to be given 3 times a day. Then proceeds to try to have bf bring her drink upstairs in which he sends me, the look of disappointment on her face when it was me that came w the soda was priceless. I guess the question is, do I have a right to tell her how I feel about her advances on my bf? He's said to stop as have I but she doesn't seem to accept that he really isn't falling for it. She's always been hateful towards him until this breakup of hers 3 DAYS AGO, but now alone wants to play nice :/ Any insight questions and criticism welcome. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted June 18, 2012 Share Posted June 18, 2012 Yes you do have the right to set boundaries here. It's good your boyfriend isn't allowing such behavior but he needs to set these boundaries as well. Link to post Share on other sites
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