jelly Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 How would any one interpret these statement coming from my wife of 17 years 1. I grew out of love 2. I dont love you anymore but I care for you and I know caring is deeper than love. 4. You did not show me enough love. (Answer-Could I show you that love now) 5. I am leaving and If I fail, I fail 6. It is now time for myself. 7. I love my family These are some of the statement that remain with me after my wife walk out. I discovered was having a secret relationship with another married man. Now there is no contact and I am trying to unterpret those statement and what they meant by anyone using them to their spouse them later finding out you have mess your life up. by the way she is living with this married man who recently have a baby with his wife-he continued to see his wife regularly but live with my wife. Link to post Share on other sites
supermom Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 Jelly, I remember your last post when it all started happening. I really feel sorry for what you are going through. 1. I grew out of love 2. I dont love you anymore but I care for you and I know caring is deeper than love. 4. You did not show me enough love. (Answer-Could I show you that love now) 5. I am leaving and If I fail, I fail 6. It is now time for myself. 7. I love my family 1. Poor excuse, there is marriage counceling 2. this means that the spark is not there, but since your are the one she had kids with, she will always care. 4. I hate this line!!! did she say anything before? 5. she will fail, you watch 6. being selfish 7. okay.... I think the next step for you would be to consider counceling for yourself, to help get over the trauma of the affair and her leaving. Please keep us posted as to how you are doing... Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 Honestly, I would move on. the marriage is over. Be thankful she told you her true feelings. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Phelly Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 hey what happened to #3? Link to post Share on other sites
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