J_weik Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 I need help composing a letter that will make her think. Bascially i don't want to call her, nor see her but i want her to know that i still love her, and that i miss her. But i dont want her to think that i'm sitting around thinking about her and doing nothing. I want to make her think if she did the right thing or not. Any suggestions as to what i can say? I know what i want to say, but i can't put it into writing. Edit: I Started the N/C last thursday, so its a week today. Also i find something strange... A mutal friend of ours just found out we broke up, and he asked Why i broke up with her... I didnt.. Wonder why she didnt tell him that she broke up with me? Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 Well I hate to say it, but if she's the one that initiated the breakup then anything you say will be seen by her as you sitting around just pining over her. You don't need to send a letter to make her think about if she did the right thing or not. Chances are, she's already wondering that herself. And if she's not, then nothing you can say will change that. Your best bet is to keep up the no contact. The less you try to contact her, the more likely she is to contact you first. I know this probably isn't the advice you wanted to hear, but I think contacting her at this point would do you more harm than good in the long run. Hang in there, man, I know what it's like.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author J_weik Posted July 1, 2004 Author Share Posted July 1, 2004 If i sit and do nothing she will forget all about me. We were together for 2 years, everyday so why would she come back to me if she felt she had to break up? I bet i don't even cross her mind at all. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted July 1, 2004 Share Posted July 1, 2004 If you were together everyday for 2 years, then she'd have to be made of ice to not be thinking about you at least a little right now. I've had exes contact me out of the blue after months of no contact. Believe me, if she wants to contact you, she will. But she's not going to forget about you. With that being said, you're only going to make yourself nuts by thinking about it. Your best bet is to find something else to occupy your mind: going to the gym, a hobby, a good movie, a rebound fling, etc... Link to post Share on other sites
Author J_weik Posted July 1, 2004 Author Share Posted July 1, 2004 I go to the gym 6 days aweek already. I've been getting in great shape. She also commented on this. She asked me why i was going to the gym, and buying new clothes for. As for the finding someone else/fling things, i can't. I do not want to be with anyone else, and if i'm around a female that im attracted to, i don't even pay attention to her, and just think about my ex. Its been 2 months now. Hey message me on aim if you have it please: Locoman1984. Link to post Share on other sites
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