hew Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 Okay so i am doing something that i know is wrong. I dated this guy for a couple months, a couple years ago. Since then he has been in a two year relationship on and off. However... we have recently started to be friends with benefits... his girlfriend already hates me for now reason... now she has a reason (hopefully she wont find out) Anyways, not only is that wrong.. but i recently "dated" his older brother.. (my ex's older brother) but i ended it. We are just really good friends now and still hangout all the time. It's just a bit messed up... Im just worried about a bunch of things. He tells me he thinks of me sometimes and that his relationship doesnt even really matter to him and he compliments me. I know that it could easily just be things i want to hear to get in my pants. However... i get jealous when i see his girlfriend posting on his wall now and i have my old feelings back. I know i should stop it.. but big part of me wants it. Honestly i dont know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
RickFox Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 Okay so i am doing something that i know is wrong. I dated this guy for a couple months, a couple years ago. Since then he has been in a two year relationship on and off. However... we have recently started to be friends with benefits... his girlfriend already hates me for now reason... now she has a reason (hopefully she wont find out) Anyways, not only is that wrong.. but i recently "dated" his older brother.. (my ex's older brother) but i ended it. We are just really good friends now and still hangout all the time. It's just a bit messed up... Im just worried about a bunch of things. He tells me he thinks of me sometimes and that his relationship doesnt even really matter to him and he compliments me. I know that it could easily just be things i want to hear to get in my pants. However... i get jealous when i see his girlfriend posting on his wall now and i have my old feelings back. I know i should stop it.. but big part of me wants it. Honestly i dont know what to do. Yeah you do, you know exactly what you need to do. Thing is, you won't do what you need to do, just what you want to do. So ask yourself, is being a piece of A** okay with you, or do you deserve more? So he thinks of you "sometimes" ...that means when he's bored and wants a piece on the side, he's thinking of you. His relationship doesn't matter to him eh? Then why would one with you matter either. You hope his gf doesn't find out while your F'ing HER bf?? You get jealous over her posting things on his facebook wall because that's HER bf? Seriously? You're screwing your ex boyfriend, who is in a relationship, you've screwed his brother too and what is it you want now? Sounds to me like your self esteem is so low that all he has to do is throw a compliment your way and you give him what he wants and then goes right on back to living his life with you as an afterthought. You're okay with all this right? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 If you feel like you're doing wrong, then stop. If not, accept the fallout and consquences..Which will probably be you lose both guys and have a lot of drama in your life. Find a single guy! Link to post Share on other sites
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