kween321 Posted June 19, 2012 Share Posted June 19, 2012 (edited) I'm 24 he's 35. We have been together for over 2 years and although we've had our issues we have a very loving relationship. I'm very attracted to him physically but emotionally he can be a little distant. Sometimes I think he'd rather be on Facebook or on his phone than pay any attention to me. I wait patiently for him to finish whatever important things he has to do on FB or his phone but it seems to be excessive... I have tried talking to him about it but he doesn't take it seriously. Which really hurts because it makes me feel as though he's not interested in making things better. The other night I was really horny and I couldn't wait for him to get home. We were sending flirty text messages all day and when he came home I went give him a BJ and he just told me to wait and then went on Facebook for an hour..... I felt so rejected and hurt and ANGRY and turned off... I still want to have sex so bad right now but I'm also too mad! He wont even try and turn me on again.. He just wants to cuddle and he'll ask me "what's wrong? Are you hungry?" Are you KIDDING ME. I'm hungry for cock you IDIOT. This happens often... This is perhaps one of the biggest issues in our relationship and it's also REALLY STUPID. I'm attractive and I get hit on constantly when I'm out and it's starting to tempt me because I'm not being satisfied by my boyfriend... How can I make him understand that this is not a joke and he needs to stop putting facebook and his phone before me??? Edited October 21, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 Seriously?? I am speechless! I am sure it was hurtful in every sense of the word but it's also quite funny to read. (Sorrrrrrrry... but it's like a Steve Carrell movie unfolding before my eyes!) How could any guy in his right mind choose Facebook over BJs!!! I am puzzled. Has his behaviour in general seem suspicious lately? What's so interesting about his facebook? Have you snooped? Keep us updated! Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 We were sending flirty text messages all day and when he came home I went give him a BJ and he just told me to wait and then went on Facebook for an hour..... I felt so rejected and hurt and ANGRY and turned off... I still want to have sex so bad right now but I'm also too mad! He wont even try and turn me on again.. He just wants to cuddle and he'll ask me "what's wrong? Are you hungry?" Are you KIDDING ME. I'm hungry for cock you IDIOT. This happens often... This is perhaps one of the biggest issues in our relationship and it's also REALLY STUPID. I'm attractive and I get hit on constantly when I'm out and it's starting to tempt me because I'm not being satisfied by my boyfriend... Perhaps it's time to find a real man 2 Link to post Share on other sites
WonderKid Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 ^^^ Nuff said Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 20, 2012 Share Posted June 20, 2012 I'm betting there's another girl involved here. And he's talking to her on fb. No way is anybody in their right mind choosing fb over a bj! WTF! Link to post Share on other sites
Author kween321 Posted October 20, 2018 Author Share Posted October 20, 2018 Haha omg this is a really delayed update but I did end up snooping his Facebook and found some very questionable chats between him and several females. Also, I am laughing at my op... actually hilarious Link to post Share on other sites
SunnyWeather Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 I liked your OP too. It's real. So, now that you know, it's about to get really REAL. what are you gonna do? You deserve so much more. The guy sounds like a tool. good luck ETA; lol, i see this is from a looong time ago. what did you ever do about it? (since this thread got bumped) Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 Are you guys still together? Link to post Share on other sites
Author kween321 Posted October 20, 2018 Author Share Posted October 20, 2018 Not long after I started this thread I found out I was pregnant. We tried for years to make it work for our child but it didn't work out and we've been separated for a year now. We've been co-parenting well and have only been communicating if it's to do with our kid. However recently things got a little weird between us but that's a story for another thread hahaha Link to post Share on other sites
A O Posted October 21, 2018 Share Posted October 21, 2018 Boy, this is quite the delay...fancy putting up with his behaviour for all these years! Otherwise, I would have suggested you work out what you wanted from a boyfriend and whether your boyfriend's behaviour fitted in with what you wanted and from there, whether any discrepancy between the two was important enough to consider leaving the guy.. Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 21, 2018 Share Posted October 21, 2018 I might guess, that since you were pregnant and didn't know it yet, hormones were playing into this situation. Women who are pregnant sometimes crave more attention and sometimes have an increase in libido . . . and don't really know why. Link to post Share on other sites
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