Hiro27 Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 So I love my girlfriend to death...but lately I've been overly sensitive about things that used to not bother me. Its like I want to see her all the time, but when I do I get irritated by her real fast. Could it be that I've just seen too much of her?...We see each other like everyday and leaving her place is somewhat bitter sweet because I love being with her, but I get so a little annoyed that I'm kinda glad I left. Seriously I'm a sensitive guy but I'm not that sensitive...whata wrong with me? Link to post Share on other sites
StartingAgain Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 what's going on in your life other than your g/f? Irritability just doesn't come out of nowhere. There's always a reason, be it medical or psychological. One thing is for certain, you better get a grip on it and stop taking it out on her. If she is the only person or thing irritating you, there must be something about her or your relationship that is bothering you and you haven't dealt with it. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 I disagree with startingagain...I think it's normal to get irritated every now and then. It doesn't mean that you're psychologically messed up. Maybe you have added stress? Take a breather and relax when you can. Pamper yourself. Get plenty of rest. Link to post Share on other sites
Pookette Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 I can kinda understand how you're feeling. I used to get annoyed at feeling obligated to see/phone my then boyfriend every day. Especially if you have to work all day and have no energy to do anything other than vegetate. Are you annoyed that you are seeing her, or are you annoyed at having to see her? It's important to just schedule some time for yourself and I'm sure she would agree. You don't want to burn out in the relationship and seeing too much of each other all the time can eventually do that. But also search for other irritants, like StartingAgain suggests. It may be simple stress from another source (job, family, money) that's making you grouchy. Link to post Share on other sites
Kobefied27 II Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 Well I guess its just a phase...I mean we went on a date last night and I was a little bit irritated and somewhat overly sensitive. I always seem to compare myself with her past boyfriends, thats killed my mood many times. Its like some times I feel like I'm not good enough for her but then again there are plenty of times where I feel like we are meant for each other. But today we hung out and we were cool, my grandmothers sick and she's the only one that knows but I guess I've been holding in what I really feel, I just tell her I'm cool because there's really nothing that she can say to make it change...not to mention I feel I would be weak...I wanna be strong, but at the same time I can't help but feel I'm supressing my hurt. I dont know...I just can't accept sympathy real good...Everytime someone feels sorry for me, I feel numb to it and I seem emotionally blocked from it but yet I still play the part because I know people's intentions are good so I don't tell them. Did I confuse things even more you everybody? I guess I may be more complicated than I thought I was....what should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
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