LikkleMissConfused Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 An update: I sent my sister a text because I was missing my nephew. Asking if I could take him to the park and for ice cream. She txt me back saying that she is busy doing stuff with them. So I sent another saying thats fine. She then rang me and starting arguing with saying that she didn't like some of the things I said like " Your kids had chicken pocks they were not on their death beds" I realise that this is harsh as said this because I was hurt and angry. But she at the time when my windows where smashed my mum had been injured she said things like I'm a waste of space, a loser, I brought this on myself. So I think we are both guilty of saying things in heat. Except I don't ring her to argue. So now she is using her kids as a way of arguing with me. I told her what I thought except I never got a chance to speak because she spoke over me and told me I was talking crap. SO I told her to shut up and that she can think what she likes coz I frankly don't give a crap. and put the phone down. The whole of her ringing me while I am at work is because she wanted to vent her anger and make me sound bad for saying what I said but I think we are even in that sense. Who deserves being a victim of crime? My own sister can't support me in bad times! But htat is how it has always been throughout my life with her. I then got very upset had a cry and decided not to bother with my nephew or neice again because she isn't going to allow that to happen, not like an adult anyway. Its her getting the kids involved not me because I was willing to pick him up and take him out. I finally sent a txt message saying "Don't call me at work, I know not to bother with you or your kids and because of you they will miss out on me because of the way you treat me. DO NOT BOTHER ME AGAIN" Thats what I said. I feel extremely low I am at work feel like crying again and feel very hurt but my sisters don't frankly care. I accept this. Any advice please. Link to post Share on other sites
flannelpajamas Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 I am really sorry you are going through this. Hopefully with time this will all blow over, and you will be able to have a relationship with your sister's children. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
bellablu Posted July 16, 2004 Share Posted July 16, 2004 I can relate to your problems...two of my sisters, I have three, are majors bitches...they are so frickin jealous of me and my life that they are miserable. They can't wait to find something about me or my life to talk about to other family members behind my back....it's juvenile and very stressful....you would think that they could find something better to do with their time. As of lately, I feel as though I only have one sister, she is the oldest and has never been mean or hateful to me ever...I love her dearly:) In our lives of high stress these days and not enough love and compassion in our world, it is just so wasteful for family members to take out all their hostility on their loved ones....I have cried many tears over my sisters and how they treat me but, will not do so anymore...my advise is don't call her (your sister), dont send her emails or text messages....maybe one day she will Grow Up and be an adult and want to be your sister again and love you for who you are not for who she or anyone else wants you to be...in the interim you will have peace of mind and no stress due to her. take care:) Link to post Share on other sites
Author LikkleMissConfused Posted July 19, 2004 Author Share Posted July 19, 2004 Thank you so much for your respose B Link to post Share on other sites
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