digger Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 I met her 21 years ago today at my brothers wedding. She was a bridesmaid and I fell in love at first sight. After getting up the nerve (beer) we talked and before the night was over i said, "you know, Im gonna marry you someday". The next night--we made love. Her first time. She told me thru the years that after that she knew i was the one. Now schroll ahead 21 years and I hurt more than ever. Shes filed and wont take "we can try" for an answer. Never contacts me. Is going thru with it..wont work it out. Send her flowers, write her happy anniversary notes like today (i know Im breaking the NC rule) and never get a response. Have a job offer in Florida. She told my mom at xmas when everybody was smiling that she'd "do anything to move back there, she loved it so" Now it seems I may be on my way alone. While she sits here in a place she absolutely hates. I think about not going because how could we reconcile then? Some say, "go..youre getting nowhere with her living 20 miles away--whats the difference if its 900?" Others say "if you leave, it might help you get her back". Maybe reality will set in that, "hey Digger is where I wanna be". Maybe hes not so bad after all. I just dont know, but here i still sit and its gonna be a really lonely night. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted July 2, 2004 Share Posted July 2, 2004 Have a job offer in Florida. I'd take it! NOT because of hopes that your ex will come around and follow you there, but because a change may be exactly what you need to get out of this holding pattern you've been stuck in. New job, new scenery, new friends and a new life. A fresh start may help keep you busy and get your mind focused on more positive things. Link to post Share on other sites
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