deeminor Posted June 24, 2012 Share Posted June 24, 2012 A few months ago I made a thread about a girl at work using some provocative body language. I wanted to update that thread, but waited far too long and it's closed. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/317575-women-body-language I did end up asking her for a way to contact. Her reply was that her plate is full. I didn't push the issue, so I simply said ok, turned around, and walked away. I did continue to speak with her after the fact, but kept it brief. There was another girl I got to know, but who was far more pleasant than the first. Got her number, went to lunch a couple of times, but had this weird, awkward moment one day. Sent a text asking a question, but only to get a reply back saying she left her phone at the bf's house. When asked, she said it's her on/off boyfriend. I stayed friendly to not seem like a jerk, but no longer talk to her as I don't work there anymore. The new job has gone about the same with women; very unsatisfactory. I'm taking a few days off soon to travel to a new city and have a look around. My hopes are to leave my current city by early next year. The new city is where my LDR ex-gf lives and I have explained my plans to her. She hasn't said too much about it, but I also want to know her reaction when she knows I'm closer. We have kept in contact since our breakup, and we are on good terms. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 24, 2012 Share Posted June 24, 2012 Try posting a reply to that thread. As the OP, I believe you can, regardless of passage of time. Topically, my opinion would be to seek something fresh or, perhaps, table the issue until you make your move to the new location and then pursue it locally. Also, relative to body language, IME, there are no absolutes. At best, there are calculated risks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author deeminor Posted June 24, 2012 Author Share Posted June 24, 2012 Try posting a reply to that thread. As the OP, I believe you can, regardless of passage of time. Topically, my opinion would be to seek something fresh or, perhaps, table the issue until you make your move to the new location and then pursue it locally. Also, relative to body language, IME, there are no absolutes. At best, there are calculated risks. I tried, but it wouldn't let me as it had been 60 days since anyone posted. I understand the risks; it's something I've thought about for a long time, now. There are several things I notice about her that makes me think she would be interested in a relationship again. Not gonna pour feelings out to her that trip, but get a feel for what she's thinking. If not, there's always Plan B. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted June 25, 2012 Share Posted June 25, 2012 A few months ago I made a thread about a girl at work using some provocative body language. I wanted to update that thread, but waited far too long and it's closed. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/317575-women-body-language I did end up asking her for a way to contact. Her reply was that her plate is full. I didn't push the issue, so I simply said ok, turned around, and walked away. I did continue to speak with her after the fact, but kept it brief. There was another girl I got to know, but who was far more pleasant than the first. Got her number, went to lunch a couple of times, but had this weird, awkward moment one day. Sent a text asking a question, but only to get a reply back saying she left her phone at the bf's house. When asked, she said it's her on/off boyfriend. I stayed friendly to not seem like a jerk, but no longer talk to her as I don't work there anymore. The new job has gone about the same with women; very unsatisfactory. I'm taking a few days off soon to travel to a new city and have a look around. My hopes are to leave my current city by early next year. The new city is where my LDR ex-gf lives and I have explained my plans to her. She hasn't said too much about it, but I also want to know her reaction when she knows I'm closer. We have kept in contact since our breakup, and we are on good terms. I'd just like to add that her plate was not really full, she was trying to attract a man, just not you. I don't remember your age, but all of these women sound full of red flags. Consider yourself lucky it hasn't worked out with them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author deeminor Posted June 25, 2012 Author Share Posted June 25, 2012 I'd just like to add that her plate was not really full, she was trying to attract a man, just not you. I don't remember your age, but all of these women sound full of red flags. Consider yourself lucky it hasn't worked out with them. I'm 30. I am not bad looking at all and good with women, but somehow get the short end of the stick. It's frustrating and makes dating (more like attempting to date) a joke. And yeah, I thought the same of the plate is full thing. Link to post Share on other sites
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