sami Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 You do not need to say anything. Just be yourself and tell her the truth. Do not make things up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author danny8630 Posted July 6, 2004 Author Share Posted July 6, 2004 I mean like...I dont wnat to be a d*ck to her? If she does call, chances are she will invite me to do something with her. But im thinking about making myself unavailable, but if i tell her that it will drive me nuts because i REALLY REALLY want to see her badly and to put her off and have to wait longer would kill me. ahhhh stressssssss Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 Who told you she wants to invite you to do something for her ?. This is only in your imagination maybe. It seems you are still assuming my friend. Time for you to show your shoulders. That is what she really wants. Believe or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author danny8630 Posted July 6, 2004 Author Share Posted July 6, 2004 well the reason i said that is because when/if she calls, it is to go eat somewhere or go swimming with me...What do you mean by show your shoulders?...and i dont understand what what she wants means. can you be more direct? Link to post Share on other sites
Author danny8630 Posted July 6, 2004 Author Share Posted July 6, 2004 she called me but i didnt hear my phone ring...i called back no answer. Everytime she calls i get this sinking feeling in my stomach and in my chest. I told you she was going to call... Link to post Share on other sites
Author danny8630 Posted July 7, 2004 Author Share Posted July 7, 2004 well, after an attempt to return her call, she called me back... i think it was anotherpointless call. She has called me before for an irrelevant reason and yeah. She basically called to tell me that her teacher pulled a pop quiz/test in her class and i stopped her and guessed that she got an "A"; of course. After a brief 3 second silence she asked when i was coming back from surgery on friday, i told her i didnt know that i didnt know what was going on. Then she ended the convo with "okay i guess ill talk to you later" I did sense some disappointment in her tone... i Still haven't called her in over a week, she has been the one that calls me. The pattern that is formed is a call almost daily; sometimes a day will pass with no call either way.Everytime she calls though, i get a sinking feeling in my stomach and in my chest...i dont know what to think of it... but im thinking about not wanting her to come visit me while im home. She wants to watch movies with me and stuff while im down...maybe these are actions for herself not wanting to give off an impression of not caring so that means she has to do something to cover it up. I will not assume that is what is true but it could be a possibilityl Girls are Shady. Link to post Share on other sites
eldslover Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 danny, thats the same pattern im in. let her call you, let her make the moves. when you feel like calling her just remember that you will feel the dissapointment you want HER to feel. dont call her for any reason unless its necessary. Link to post Share on other sites
Author danny8630 Posted July 8, 2004 Author Share Posted July 8, 2004 hey guys...well she called me today when she was on her way into work and asked me when i was leaving for my surgery tomorrow. I told her "in the morning" and she was like okay. Here's where it twists up a bit. she NEVER told me "Pleasecall me tomorrow night", i used to ask her occasionally to call me when she got in from going out at night (why cant i call during the day?). and i said with a chuckle of UNenthused surprisement "ok". THEN she says "okay...i love you".... I did Fantastic up until this second. I dont know why but a muffled "luff you" came out. i know it was the wrong wrong wrong thing to say. Well i dont know if im going to call her tomorrow or not, i dont see the point in it really. If anything, i will wait until like 10pm and then call, but i dont know. Odds are she'll call me earlier if i dont call at all. After surgery, she will be at my house with me; I dont know for how long though. Maybe she will be there for an hour, maybe all day? If she ends up coming multiple times for a couple of times, I know at some point im going to ask her why she comes/ is here. ADVICE ANYONE?? I need alot because i wont be able to even talk for like 2 or 3 days *She might try to have sex with me too*....accept it or no? see all this stuff is bugging the hell out of me Link to post Share on other sites
Author danny8630 Posted July 13, 2004 Author Share Posted July 13, 2004 well guys...its pretty much over between us. We had one of those 'talks' and it was a disaster. I think i did more damage than good. Basically i told her that i wasnt feeling that we were friends anymore and she just became defensive as hell. She was saying that she was completely busy with work and that she cant put in any more time for any of her friends. She just says we have to be FRIENDS only and nothing else for it wont work.I'm living with it, its just something i have to accept. I called her to apologize and she was going to meet someone at the movies. i dont know, shes just not for me. Link to post Share on other sites
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