exassaty69 Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 yes my man does all the messed up, hurtful stuff, that i have been reading about in here regarding internet porn. But heres the catch. He moved out here, with me. To a city in Southern Ca. from the back woods of Lake Elsinore CA. He hadnt set foot in a big city like mine in about 20 years. I introduced him to his 1st computer game of the 90's. And yes I was the one who showed him the internet. I was getting a rush from showing him all the 'city' stuff he wasnt used to or hadnt seen before. We had an incredible sex life. I mean unbelievable, and fantasy like to most women. He was here for a while so I decided to spice things up a bit. and tried to get a lil freaky with some adult webcam chat rooms with him. Thought it might be interesting and fun since he had been somewhat sheltered in Elsinore. HUGE MISTAKE!!! that was a little over a year ago. Now he is a webmaster. gets all his porn free. gets into live feeds. with real live girls that do all kinds of stuff on cam. hes discovered things i have never heard of. He still hasnt figured out how to clear temporary internet files and history so yes i see almost all of his activity when i have been away at work or something. Our sex life has deteriorated substancially. I am a good looking woman, but i have put on a few pounds since weve been together. so i am already very insecure about my sex appeal to him. the things i am reffering to are: when i went to make love to him once while he was glued to the monitor, he literally stretched his neck to see past me when i tried to get his attention. our lovemaking is very few and far between now. and when it does happen its over in about 5-7 min. as opposed to the half an hour - hour it used to last. He is looking at beautiful naked women sexually all the time and even live ones. hard bodies. he says he loves me and i am just perfect 4 him. I even offered to get my breast enhanced somehow and he said he wouldnt want that. when we fight about it he says to help him stop looking at the porn. cause of what it does to us. but he slowly weasles back into it after a few days. what should i do. my self esteem is plummeting Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 This is a totally different situation from those wherein the guys use porn only occasionally. This guy is totally occupied with it. Check out this post from an old thread. There are a lot of links on it that should be helpful. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?postid=134969#post134969 Link to post Share on other sites
Fritz Posted July 3, 2004 Share Posted July 3, 2004 He has issues, most likely addiction. A real, live warm body vs web cam tomfoolery and he's picking the web is not a "sane" man. Link to post Share on other sites
sk0r3 Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 Whoa. I'm glad i kicked the habit. That is so dang scary. Link to post Share on other sites
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