brie123 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 I am a housewife and pretty much do whatever my husband asks, he doesnt lift a finger, he has explosive anger, if i ask a (in his eyes) stupid question he will flip on me scream yell, our last explosive fight he wanted to make a "game" out of it and spray paint my clothes, throw my expensive laptop around just because i was laughing at how crazy he was being and the fight was over the fact i felt like i have no say in anything and he makes all the decisions, hes has to be in control at all times and before the fight i calmly sat him down and told him how i felt and made very good points on the issue i was dealing with and next thing you know hes like flipping out getting in my face screaming throwing my stuff in bags and telling me if i don't like it get the **** out, but that kind of stuff happens every 3 or so months but normally, but on a day to day basis he tries to pick on me saying i didnt do anything around the house and you can clearly hear the dishes in the dishwasher and see the floors are clean and everythings picked up like today he asked why dont u do something around here i replied why dont u do something around here then hes like yeah right get the **** outta my face and ignored me until he had to leave and gives me the cold shoulder hes just been very angry lately with mainly me, and i dont know how much more i can take til i snap i need advice! Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Advice? LEAVE. Sounds terrible!!! Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 What exactly are you getting out of this relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
Author brie123 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Share Posted June 26, 2012 we have a young child and hes in the army weve been married for almost 4 years and were far from home... many many states away Link to post Share on other sites
BetheButterfly Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 we have a young child and hes in the army weve been married for almost 4 years and were far from home... many many states away It does seem like he has anger issues. It was good that you tried to communicate with him. Do you yell, or is it just him who yells? If possible, I do think it's good to go with your child to a peaceful place. It hurts kids to hear yelling like that. Can you ask your family and see if they can fly you to their home for awhile? It would be great to get counseling. Do they give free counseling to army couples? It would be awesome if so. Also, see if you can find an army wife support group. That would be good too. Link to post Share on other sites
denise_xo Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 we have a young child and hes in the army weve been married for almost 4 years and were far from home... many many states away I don't think it's very healthy for a child to grow up in that kind of atmosphere. Do you have family you can stay with temporarily? Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 pteromom is a strange name Yes it is! And I drink Coke! Oh wait, wrong troll. Link to post Share on other sites
wow04 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 When dealing with my emotional abusive ex-husband, I was asked this question: "Do you want your two sons to grow up and act like that? They will if they see nothing else." That hit me like a ton of bricks. So ask yourself the above question Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 im not a troll. Ok - if you aren't a troll, why post "pteromom is a strange name" in a thread about someone's angry husband? Looking at your posts, it appears you are just going around trying to get a rise out of people. If you aren't a troll and you really want to be a part of this board, work on posting relevant comments and relating to other people... Link to post Share on other sites
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