CARMEL2004 Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 about 4 months ago i found a text on my husband cell that said come over when i asked him about it he said don't know who the number belongs to when i first saw the text i didn't tell him i saw i just checked his cell bill and each month i checked it 4 months in a row and that number was on there alot all of the months i checked his cell and the recieve call the number was there and the dialed calls where there so i no he is lieing he thinks everything is okay and i have forgotten all about the number on the phone and the text and when i upset or give him a smart answer he can't figure out what is wrong with me i want to tell him so bad i know he was lieing about the number and i not as stupid as he thinks i am but if i do then he know i have been checking his mail should i say something or just let it go i haven't checked his cell bill this month i am about to explode this is eating me up he thinks he is getting off easy HELP!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Stargazer25 Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 Carmel, You NEED to confront his lying ass! You are MARRIED to this guy and as far as i'm concerned you didn't violate his trust in you, but he has violated your trust in HIM. Who cares if he knows you've looked at HIS mail? It's a damn cell phone bill right? Not like you opened a letter from his mom and read it or something like that. You're his WIFE and obviously he gave you reason to be suspicious~~~ It isn't okay for you to let this eat at you Carmel~~ You have EVERY right to be mad and EVERY right to an explanation! Confront him! Get the bill(s) high light the number EVERY time it appears and bring in the "evidence" tell him that the text from 4 months ago made you suspicious and that he had LIED about it, tell him you want to know RIGHT NOW who this person is and why he has been lying to you. I swear if it were me (and it's happened to me before) I would make his sorry butt call this number with me on the phone and find out for real what is going on. You're his wife Carmel, and it IS YOUR RIGHT TO KNOW. Good Luck girl Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 good lord woman! Why haven't you called this number yet!?!?! Geeze, I found a number in my husband's wallet once, and hit *67 and called that number right up. A man answered. Honey, go to http://www.whitepages.com right now, and go to reverse phone look up, and see who that number belongs to. If it's a cell phone, though, it won't tell you p.m. me the number, and I'll call it, and ask whomever the number owner is who they are, and ask them if they know "Carmen Lynch" if they say no, I'll say, "I have the wrong number, sorry," and hang up I'll let you know if it's a woman Link to post Share on other sites
Author CARMEL2004 Posted July 7, 2004 Author Share Posted July 7, 2004 i have called the number several times and always a voicemail comes up and it is a woman and the number is a cell number i know that for sure just don't k ow who it is yet but i will continue calling until she answers Link to post Share on other sites
TreeHugger Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 I did the same kind of thing...however it was through email...I made a really general email (pretended to be my husband), just a couple of sentences...you should have seen the response I received from his "friend" ...I printed it out and provided it to my divorce attorney!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Stargazer25 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Carmel, Make sure you dial *67 BEFORE you dial her number, so the number comes up on her caller ID as unavailable, she may not be answering because she knows it's from your number. Psshhh keep calling her sorry ass night and day! Ugh! then go kick your hubby in the butt! Good Luck girl Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 she'll know a *67 is from you. Can you go to his workplace and call her Link to post Share on other sites
experienced Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Use a pay phone and when she answers just hold on to the line to hear the back ground noise, believe me I did that with a friend of mine and she ended up getting her work number name address and first and last name. lol you hear alot when you just wait on a phone. or confront him ith the cell phone bills that you hjave been seeing the number,do not let him get away with it, the first thing they say is "thats just a friend" fine if it is a friend then i want to meet her,. From experienced in this area Link to post Share on other sites
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