Hanah Posted October 16, 2000 Share Posted October 16, 2000 I'm confused about what to do.Iv'e been going out with the same guy I've been with for 5 years.And now I have met a guy that wants a relationship with me that I meant on the internet.I still have feelings for both guys,but don't know which one to pick.The one I met on the internet lives far away from me.And tells me he's so glad he found me.Then I still have the one I met 5 years ago that is still in love with me.I don't know what to do,I just don't want either one to get hurt.I love them both the same.I don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 16, 2000 Share Posted October 16, 2000 You may think you're in love with one, the other or both but you aren't. If you were in love with the first, you wouldn't have developed feelings for the guy on the Internet. Have you been with this guy in person who you met on the Internet? I don't think you are ready for love yet. When you find it, you won't have problems like this. You will have absolutely no doubt whatsoever about who you want to spend your time with. Then again, you could have them do it like they did hundreds of years ago. They could duel over you. Whichever lives gets your heart...or breaks it. Link to post Share on other sites
Queenie Posted October 16, 2000 Share Posted October 16, 2000 Dear Hannah, The only thing you are feeling right now is curiosity and the thrill of being persued. If you were not happy in your present relationship you should have left. If you are thinking to leave your present relationship because of this fellow you have met over the internet then that is going to hurt your bf and by the sounds of it this new fellow does not know about your present bf, or does he? If the new fellow doesn't know about the bf then that is going to hurt him isn't it? By the way seeking new relationships over the internet is a form of cheating - in my opinion. I'm confused about what to do.Iv'e been going out with the same guy I've been with for 5 years.And now I have met a guy that wants a relationship with me that I meant on the internet.I still have feelings for both guys,but don't know which one to pick.The one I met on the internet lives far away from me.And tells me he's so glad he found me.Then I still have the one I met 5 years ago that is still in love with me.I don't know what to do,I just don't want either one to get hurt.I love them both the same.I don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Weapon Tex Posted October 17, 2000 Share Posted October 17, 2000 I hope you get your ass canned by both guys, serves you right. Queenie hit it on the nose. Don't search the net for guys. If you do, at least have the courteousy to ditch 5 yr plan before you do, then its cool. But I still hope you get your ass canned. Link to post Share on other sites
Deejette Posted October 17, 2000 Share Posted October 17, 2000 Just for fun I went into a chat room one day and as a result 5 guys started writing to me. Two already say they are in love with me, even though we haven't met. It is very easy to say flattering things over the internet. Only fools fall for them though. I hope you get your ass canned by both guys, serves you right. Queenie hit it on the nose. Don't search the net for guys. If you do, at least have the courteousy to ditch 5 yr plan before you do, then its cool. But I still hope you get your ass canned. Link to post Share on other sites
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