Diatribes Posted July 8, 2012 Share Posted July 8, 2012 Maybe a self inventory pro/con list would be more apropos, and helpful, in my opinion. I've found that thinking about my ex typically sent me spinning. Link to post Share on other sites
magneet Posted July 9, 2012 Share Posted July 9, 2012 PROS: supportive smart very attractive sweet good natured vales and morals CONS: no sexual attraction - even though she was very attractive no sex, she didnt enjoy it she did not trust me she never listened, only talked. her time was THE outmost importance and everyone else had to adhere to that short tempered didnt enjoy my music, habits or friends friends were always an issue she didnt have fun with me when we were in a group she had an attitude of a 50 year old (she is 26) she dressed like a 50 year old. (until we broke up, now she dresses like a sexy young woman - again) There was no spark between us from the start... That might have influenced everything... Link to post Share on other sites
Inky-Dinky Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Pros: sense of humorconsiderate of other peoplegenerousFamily orientedreligiousgreat kisserthere when I needed himintelligentsame principlesgood with moneysimilar bed habitsgood dad Cons fat and baldingliarbad in bedMARRIEDalways at his convenienceforgot my bdayno gifts on holidaysrude breakupcowardcoldmanipulative YIKES! this guy is a fat bastard! Link to post Share on other sites
Inky-Dinky Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Hey man, at some point, I hope you decide to talk to her about washing her stank azz. Tell her to wet that washcloth, lather up with soap and wash that nasty, nasty azzcrack. Also, you should tell her that when she craps, she should wipe her dirty azz until the tissue turns white again. Hey man, you tell that stank bitch that she needs to keep her stank azz clean from filth. Geez...dirty friggin' bitch! Moonchie is going crazy over what BigBear's ex did to him and her lack of a fresh and clean buttcrack. Link to post Share on other sites
Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Pros Intelligent Great taste in music Attractive Easy to get ahold of Bought me flowers often Great in bed Didn't want any of his own kids Non-religous Cons Manipulative Controlling LIAR No family; disowned his mom (dad passed away) HUGE money/credit problems Did not believe in chivalry Hated my friends Disrespectful to my parents and I Fought with me in front of my kids constantly Very verbally abusive Physically abusive at times Smoked too much weed Lazy Lacks empathy and sympathy I couldn't count on him to help me in any situation that was inconvenient for him User It's been almost 6 weeks since we broke up. He told me not to contact him and I haven't. He threw everything in the book at me when we broke up: I don't love you; No one will love you forever; You're a horrible girlfriend; try to contact me and I'll get a restraining order on you (really? I guess it worked since I haven't reached out) - just to name a few. We dated for two years but broke up numerous times during the relationship by me. Mostly because of his verbal and physical abuse. This time he ended it. Sometimes I wonder if I'm such a mess now because he ended things but then I think, I did love him. Why? Probably 90% of it was the combination of him being attractive, good in bed and well read. I say well read because when it comes to knowing people's emotions and how to deal with them, he just didn't care. I got the back end of that, whenever I expressed any emotion (which wasn't a whole lot) he would just disregard it and never want to work on anything. He was an angry, angry person that would jump at the chance to dislike anything and anyone but he knew how to persuade people. That's where he got me. Somehow he convinced me I was different to him than any other past gf (wanted to marry me, raise my two girls with me, move in with me) but now I see that I was completely blind who he was. I deserve so much better. And so do all of you. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Pros Gorgeous Huge capacity for love Bright Devoted Hard working Disciplined Playful Capable of great intimacy and fantastic sex Cons Borderline Personality Disorder Link to post Share on other sites
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