rd1978 Posted July 4, 2004 Share Posted July 4, 2004 ok so her it goes we have been talking alot on instant messanger she writes me i havent wrote her 1 time in 2 months,,,,, or conctaced her period,, she calls me,, in the past month im going to say i talk to her on an average of between 4-5 days a week,,,, the first month i refused to talk to her,and i told her not to call me when shebroke up with me,,, i said you have to do everything not to call me,,, so she has been asking me what im doing and who im hanging out with , etc,etc..... but i dont ask her anything... we have really good conversation's .. last fri she kept asking what i was doing and it seemed like she wanted to hang out,, then 1 day this week she was asking me what i was doing and, then ased if i had a tennis raquette, and kept saying she was bored,,, i havent really given her any ideas of working things out,, but on the other hand im not being mean so today she told me she gets angry at me sometimes ,, because i am not telling her alot of stuff when she asks me about what im doing or who im hanging out with,, etc etc. And because ive changed and im going out and doing alot more fun stuff and when we were togethor after the 5 years we kinda got boring and routine,,,,, so i said to her well you shouldnt be getting angry with me about that kind of stuff because we are friends...... so she was like FRIENDS? and i was like yeah friends and she was like i dont know if i could be friends ,, its just not that easy, then she asked if i wanted to be friends and i said i dont want to be enemies,, and i told her it wouldnt be easy being friends..... BUT SHE HAS BEEN CALLING ME LIKE FRIENDS AND WHAT NOT i mean if she doesnt think she can be friends why is she contacting me so much,, i have been playing my cards well,, almost to well ,, she was also hanging out witht his other kid so i dint know what the deal is ,,, ANY IDEA"S Link to post Share on other sites
cha0sman Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 Screw her, Women are the root of all evil...ask her what she really wants. say something on the order of well, if not friends then what? ask her if you dont want to be friends then what do you want to happen, and why are you talking to me. dont let her take control of the conversation either be firm. but dont be mean either. Thats just my opinion take it as you will. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rd1978 Posted July 5, 2004 Author Share Posted July 5, 2004 yeah i totally agree it seems like bull****,,, its like she wont leave me aloneif i was online everyday i bet she would write me everyday,,, if im not she will call,, i told her to leave me alone when we broke up and i made her promise she would do everything to not contact me,,,,, AND the *****ng thing that really pisses me off is she seems to be always asking what im doing who im doind it with etc.etc. I dont know why? ANd i dont always tell her the truth like if i hung out with a girl,,,,,she could either be asking because she is curious, or she wants to know if im seeing anyone,, I have NOT called or wrote her 1 time in the past 2 months since we broke up she contacts me constantly,, and i know in the begingin she started hanging out with this guy,, he was asking her before we broke up,, it seemed like they always went out to the bars and stuff... in the past week it seems she has tried to ask me to hang out 2 times but she just doesnt come right out and say i,, just hints around it ,, she doesnt know if i am with,, or seeing anyone..... ill give it another week and if the same crap happens she is getting cut off,, w/t/f if she is contacting 4 days a week and she doesnt think she can be my friend than whats her deal...? Link to post Share on other sites
cha0sman Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 when she signs on just put up an away message thats what i do...im going practically the same thing except my ex is like bla bla bla i love you bla bla bla...yet she is engaged....when she messages you just put up an away message or just completely ignore what she says it will make her wonder really what is going on... Link to post Share on other sites
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