littlelady2852 Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 I am new at this kind of message board, and i am kinda shy and really can't talk to anyone around here about this, so here goes.. I have been working for this company for about 5 years now, well this guy started working there, we have become friends and co-workers. He has been married for 35 years,he is always saying something bad about his marriage, i thought he just needed someone to talk to, but lately he has been winking at me and bringing me lunch from home, and the other day he was talking about forplay, not about me but to me about him. What am i suppose to think of his actions ? is he getting interested in me in more than friendship? I have never been with a married man, but i am attracted to him.Think about him alot ! Link to post Share on other sites
Suzi Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 Originally posted by littlelady2852 I am new at this kind of message board, and i am kinda shy and really can't talk to anyone around here about this, so here goes.. I have been working for this company for about 5 years now, well this guy started working there, we have become friends and co-workers. He has been married for 35 years,he is always saying something bad about his marriage, i thought he just needed someone to talk to, but lately he has been winking at me and bringing me lunch from home, and the other day he was talking about forplay, not about me but to me about him. What am i suppose to think of his actions ? is he getting interested in me in more than friendship? I have never been with a married man, but i am attracted to him.Think about him alot ! Go online at some dating site and meet a not married man! It can be a big headache to be with a married man. Are you married too? There are millions of great single men, date them, make friends... Or if it is really serious let him first get divorced. If honestly, what do you expect? Link to post Share on other sites
shorty19632004 Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 I am just asking for advise, does anyone think he is interested in me more than just friends or co-workers or am i just seeing things that are not there ? Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 What about you?. Are you willing to put yourself in this situation? If your answer is "NO" then just ignore his words and actions and start to treat him like any other nice co-worker. You must be in control of your feelings and actions. Do not give in to any pressure from his side if you are not really interested. If, however, you are interested that becomes another long story. Relationships with married men is a sure and short way to stress, depression and all kinds of negativities. It is poison covered with honey. Good luck and welcome to the LV forums. Link to post Share on other sites
Suzi Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 YES, I think he is interested in more than just friendship. Recently I had one to come late in the evening to my office with homemade food. He is not married but I am, and have a LDR. So I thought it might work to be friends. Was careful, though accepted some invitations from him. (My husband knew about it) Unfortunately he was NOT looking for just friendship…Does anyone believe man and woman can be just friends? I don’t believe it anymore. It is so rare. Good luck in your case! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 Whether or not he is, following up on it is a bad idea for many reasons, including the problems it can cause you at work. Remember, some day you'll be married and in love and you'll trust that man to not run around on you. Don't be the kind of woman you'll end up hating. Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 There is an old saying from the East. It goes , to the best of my linguistic abilities to translate into English,: " While girls are content with a kiss, boys are starving for a kuss". Kuss, as Iwas told, here means the girls private bikini area. Do not ever believe in a man/woman innocent romantic friendly relationships. Things will quickly build up and go out of control. Link to post Share on other sites
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