xx.Kael.xx Posted July 4, 2012 Share Posted July 4, 2012 About a couple months ago, I got into a serious relationship with a girl I met online about a year ago. I live in BC, she lives in Toronto. Not too far, but enough to make it work. We've both had the same raw deals handed to us by the Devil's cards. So, both of us have a ton in common. That being said, these commons present an issue in our relationship now. More so on her part. When she gets upset, she tends to shut down & not want to talk about anything. Which, you know...I can understand, but with me being her man & all, you'd think I'd be the first one to come to. Anyway, I confronted her on the phone about miscommunication. She got very upset with me, saying that I should be more understanding. Here's the kicker. The past couple weeks haven't been the same. She normally calls me in the morning with romantic wake-ups. I haven't had one in about a week now. She never calls as much anymore. I'm usually the one taking initiative. We both have family members in the hospital, so I understand why she could be distant. But as much as I'm in pain, I still make an effort. Yesterday, I got a little upset & I thought she was being distant, so she ends up hanging up on me without so much as an "I love you" or a goodbye. Haven't heard anything all day from her. Now, another thing. She has this best friend, let's call him Ted. A while ago, she was telling me about an issue he was having with his girlfriend. Out of freaking nowhere, she says " Yeah I told him that if I wasn't already with you, I'd **** him just to spite her" I mean what the hell? I reamed her out for it to the point where she was in tears. She said they are only friends, and that she would never sleep with him, but that still not the point. She did apologize, but now this raises red flags every day. Is she ****ing him? Or am I just being delusional? We both love each other very much, and I'm planning a trip to her next month. But I don't understand any of this. So, is she cheating? Help me out here, guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Nicomis Posted July 4, 2012 Share Posted July 4, 2012 Go on about your business, don't call her, let her call first. If she doesn't cal you for more than 48 hours, she's seeing someone else. I'll wager that's the case, but to be sure, don't call her. The fact that you got upset about her not opening up to you causes her to view you as needy. She's probably not sleeping with "Ted", although "Ted", almost assuredly wants to, but it's likely she is at least seeing someone else. Women with male bff's usually don't sleep with them, but use them for the attention and ego boost they provide. Link to post Share on other sites
Author xx.Kael.xx Posted July 4, 2012 Author Share Posted July 4, 2012 Right on the money. Thanks for the advice. I'm going to the gym right now. Gonna pump some iron, and enjoy the day. Link to post Share on other sites
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